# He said: "I have many emotional relationships in my life; so to speak, I am not drawn from one relationship, and whenever I decide to be one and hold on, I soon broke what I promised myself."
* # Speak unspoken words
This person, who moves from one relationship to another; may combine more than one relationship at the same time, and he - and those who fall in the sheet - think that it is an emotional relationship, this man we meet his victims often in the clinic, and little to meet him; For any treatment, whether the victims speak, or speak the same person, the tongue says one of those words:
- "Get out of every relationship with a dramatic story invented; I have succeeded in times to convince those who give up, and times not successful; to enter into another relationship."
- "I get rid of the relationship with a shameful story that may reach to the point of exposing those who leave it."
- "I enjoy the unjustified termination of the relationship, and sometimes I enjoy ending it in a way that hurts the other side."
"It happened a lot that I was in more than two relationships at the same time."
- I try to "saturate", or "ground" and no use.
- I relax and feel stable as I move from relationship to relationship, or be in more than one relationship at the same time, and I do not feel love to either of them despite my pleasure and I with them.
* # Statistics and ratios
Although there are no scientific statistics on the incidence of this in the sexes, the experience of treatment says that the multiplicity of this type of harmful relationships or addiction was much more in men than in females, although the proportion of multiple relationships of girls increased in the last ten years from the previous much
*# Beyond these relationships
The important truth is that the suffering of the suffering party or the victim of the role of the victim in the case of an increase, and the other fact that the personality that is a multiplicity of semi-emotional relationships (the most accurate description of this form of relations is the undetermined relationship with others; the relationship can not be described as a true love relationship, We can be considered a healthy psychological communication relationship, not a relationship of disciplined human understanding and understanding); this character is an abnormal personality at the psychological level, and thus moral and social, and these personalities vary in intensity and type of non-alike; and are present on the continuum starting with psychological confusion because of circumstances Formation and ending with disorders Personal.
*# What do you do if you find yourself in a harmful relationship?
If you find yourself in a relationship of this kind and play the role of victim, much of the foresight will renew your vision of yourself and your partner in the relationship, help you make a clear decision, and another equally important part of you will not be a victim again; , And it is important at first to recognize the different reasons and characteristics of the person addicted to relationships:
- his sexual identity is shaken; his deep sense of vulnerability makes him unconscious - wants to prove his masculinity through the multiplicity of girls who want to approach him, a very old problem; his identity has not been confirmed since he was three years old or shortly before .
- the person (young man / girl), whose relationship with his mother / father has been compromised, whether by rooting rejection in the relationship or hatred or exclusion or neglect or comparison very severe or punishment very shocking to the psychological stage - note that the dose in all this was too high to the extent of deep self-mutilation - He made him look for love, acceptance, admiration and attention, and often looking for revenge - whether he realized it or did not realize it, as if searching every girl for his mother, or looking at each man from her father; to take away what they denied him or to take revenge, and in that area a lot Very psychological analyzes that may be multiplied in the details of each case, but consistent in general analysis, as if Overall, my son relationship with his mother, daughter or her father is reflected in this diversity.
- A sadistic person; it is a mental disorder that makes a person thirst for the humiliation, subjugation, subjugation, and pleasure of the other; he loves to abuse the other in his alleged love, and in every detail of the relationship.
- Hysterical man, a man with a deep, deep title, but without any real details to serve this title; talks about adoration, grams and rare love, does not strive for this relationship as he speaks, or speaks and acts with seduction and high excitement and does not like sexual intercourse, but loves to be the focus of attention Attention and leadership, and we have found that hysterical characters are mostly women.
- a man who suffers deep feelings of inadequacy, feeling incapacitated, and therefore not being merited; and so he can not rest unless he surrounds himself all the time with a group of girls who may not have emotional feelings, but their presence alleviates his sense of inadequacy.
- Narcissistic man, who sees himself as very unique, unmatched, worthy of less than the greatest degrees in all spheres of life; he has transcended selfishness, has become the center of the universe, and no one else can ever be in his place, no matter what. Therefore, he is the man who destroys the hearts of women before the virgins, and they all fight for a look from him, and all of them wish to submit to him as neighbors, and is often diligent to achieve his vision of himself with the money and the status that enables him to obtain this "satisfactory" satisfaction.
The man who has not yet completed his psychological development has overcome the part that demands the instincts within him, the part that satisfies instincts by meeting the requirements of maturation and control in many ways. This man often has more sexual relations than feelings - if this exists - Emotional relations, and the Western context allows them to appear where they have sex and exchange between wives if they get married.
These are some of the most famous reasons - not all of them - mentioned by psychological theories, especially the analytical theory. We have talked here in a general way about what we may encounter during the relationship, and we will talk about how to recognize them in the coming time.
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