No need to suffer in pain by tarazkp

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· @tarazkp · (edited)
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No need to suffer in pain
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No one aims to get hurt. No one enters into a relationship looking to be cheated on, lied to, beaten. No one hopes to be robbed, raped or attacked in the street. No one wants to become ill or lose those they love. No one wants bad things to happen. 

But they happen anyway.

There is no stopping random chance no matter how safe one tries to act as risk exists in all we do. It is an inherent part of life and as such, we all will inevitably experience pain at some point. Yes, the degree and circumstances change, one's excruciating pain may rate an annoyance for another, but pain can always knock on life's door, no matter who you are, what your tolerance.

But, suffering need not.

For some, the pains they have not only define them, but consume them. Each thought is born in that pain, each movement motivated by it, each word spoken from it. Some become so comfortable living in pain, they start to think it is all there must be. These are the ones who drip acid from their tongue and act to inflict pain on others, for if that is life, they must play their role in the continuance. Nature demands it. 

But not all fruit born from pain is bitter. There is nothing more beautiful than love born from pain, a straight back in adversity, strength in defeat, knees broken but fighting to straighten and the smile that remains while a world crumbles is the most spellbinding of all. These people do what they can to spread love as in their view, nature demands it.

The scar tissue that forms on the body and mind is a unique marker of our experience. We carry their memory but we need not suffer from it. Rather than be weighed down, it can be our proof to ourselves of how we are capable to travel roads others may fear to tread.

Strength does not require aggression, brutality and violence. True strength is having faced demons, been injured over and over, torn and shattered and still stand, still laugh, still look at those less fortunate and reach a hand in their direction to help them up.

But our pain is ours and as such, we must deal with it ourselves, understand it for what it is; an emotion, an experience, a moment in time. And like all moments, it will pass onto the next. There is no need to hold on and identify with it. Objectify it instead, take the lessons available, adjust and move on.

It seems very difficult to do when trapped in the pain, when gripping it with both hands but with practice, like anything, it becomes like all else in life, transitory. Besides death itself, the worst the world has to offer, the worst humanity can be, is all survivable.

You are much stronger than you think, more capable than you believe.

Taraz
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This is my 2000th post and even though I am in pain much of the time, it does me well to remind myself I need not suffer. I can continue to improve and continue to help where I can.

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@freshstuff · (edited)
Congrats  for 2000 followers ,that picture is really dope. Respect
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@tarazkp ·
Thanks. I wish it was followers. Just my posts.
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@freshstuff ·
Ups ,sorry ,my bad  😂
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@kissofearth ·
Great post bad time doesn't have to be tormenting if we learn not to suffer! Thanks for sharing.
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@doctorjohn ·
2000 is a good number.  Please continue.  I enjoy your work. 
Pain is like time... it is relative.  It also curves starting strong then bouncing down.  At least that is my experience.
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@tarazkp ·
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And the more that comes, the less it effects in my experience.
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