Indeed @tarazkp, pain is survivable. Yet it is difficult to objectify pain especially physical pain. I believe in having the right mental attitude so that instead of letting the pain rule you, you battle it and try to mute it's voice. I don't know any other way

Life's unpredictability...Our resolve to cope with life is much stronger though

For me it is time that moves me on, for some pain I've had has been too huge to just let go; but other smaller pains I can adjust to and move on from. Thanks for this post...

There are texts that motivate you and make you feel that they speak to you. This is what I felt with your writing, @tarazkp. I feel that just like the one who goes to war and shows his wounds, just like the one who has lived. When you live you run the risk of suffering. There are no formulas to avoid falling, to avoid stumbling, the idea is not to fall in love with the obstacle, the stone. I know many who drown in a glass of water, not seeing what's out there. I liked starting my day with this reading. Thank you

life is is not always about rainbow and butterfly ,pains are inevitable in life. The only way it can break you is if you let it, but always know that your purpose in life is always greater than your pain and the experience you have during your trying times are the best lessons ever so dont let your pains to weigh you down, learn from them and forge ahead.

Pain is certainly inevitable, @tarazkp, and some people put up with it more than others. I know of people who are able to react strongly to a fall, like others who collapse and it is difficult to lift them up. They stay enjoying him and his misfortune. Why me is part of the thinking. Like the case of death. Some families find in some member that this is their pillar, where to sustain you. Thank you for sharing

Anytime I think I am going through some sort of painful experience I remind myself that at that very moment, someone is experiencing a pain a hundred time worse than I. 
not to downplay mine or anyone else's experiences, pain can be personal and affect a someone in ways that observers can't see.

Only on-topic sideways, but this came to mind:

Somehow, pain is measured with "the moment of most pain" in your life as a reference. It is not just the natural ability to cope, but also what you have experienced that determines how bad someting hurts. This effect can be called "strength" or "numbing", depending on your frame of mind, but it does show coping and being bothered by things depends greatly on what you have been through before.

I can hardly find the words to express how your post speaks to me. Society is so focused on happiness that people who are lucky enough to not have experienced such pain don't want to think or talk about the fact that tragedies do in fact happen, and that it could just as easily have been them. It would be good if more people would stop and listen to those around us who are in pain, acknowledge that it's part of life, and learn from their strength and resilience. Your words are as delicate as they are strong and they are touching a place deep down. Thank you for sharing.

What a awesome piece that speaks to me very personally mate. I have felt it physically, mentally and emotionally and can honestly say I would have been a nasty bastard if I had not endured it all. 

In a flash it will rip your feet out from under you, strike you down and sit down on you till you can't breath and still not get off you, but you must Improvise Adapt & Overcome

Life is full of pain and recovery.  As I read your post, I thought of my children.  I teach 6th grade students.  Many of them have experienced extreme pain as they deal with family and home life situations.  My kids know that I am there for them and they often share with me.  Talking helps them to heal.  Thanks for your post; really gives me something to think about.

Life throws curve balls at us all the time. Some seem to have more to dodge than others.Yes we get stronger and wiser and can see them coming now and probably makes it a little worse. Nothing is that bad that you can't overcome. I have been knocked down quite a bit but you have to learn to pick your self up i used to be an ultra positive person but with all the knocks less so these days. That I need to change for my own sanity and will do over time. Time is important as it is a healer.

Great blog. When I first started reading it, I thought that I fell into the first group. That was until I got to the part about inflicting pain on others. As I continued to read, it made me realize that I fell into the second group. I tend to dwell on painful things for a while but I do get over them eventually, it is then that I am able to learn from them. Pain can teach us very valuable lessons about ourselves.

So true. The past shouldn't define us. We have to deal with the wounds and pains (not ignore them) and then move on.