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Most of us have so many times told ourselves that life is unfair. This happens right from when were still young, Our parents used to take good acre of us or they used to abuse us, regardless of what happened a time came and we said some people or someone were not being fair to us.
Remember when you lost a contest to someone who never did any hard work?
Maybe someone used to bully you at school when you were still young.
Your boss chose to promote someone else instead of promoting you at work.
**It was unfair right?**
*When did this start?*
Regardless of whether  we always had a upper hand in life or not, 
Most people say life is unfair regardless of their situation compared to others.
Most people it all starts when their parents tell them, they are entitled to everything, they grow up knowing that they have to take whatever comes along. What happens when something however small doesn't come their way?
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Some people have lived most of their lives in the victim mentality, they accepted and cursed the world for it's unfairness. Not like they are okay with it, they just feel they are so unfortunate.

<center>***What if life was fair***</center>
What if we all got what we wanted?
What if everyone won an Olympics medal?
What if everyone was beautiful?
*Would your life make a lot of sense?*
How could we survive in such a system? would it be even realistic?

<center>***Why do you think life is so unfair?(If it is)***</center>
**Life is a competition**
And whether we have always been told to only compete with ourselves, some rules of the universe always will apply.
From when you are graded in school through winning a job interview to competing for the chief executive position, it has always been competition.
Whether you open a business that directly competes with another business.
Even in work places,
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When you fail to deliver, someone else would appreciate the fairness.
Competition has led to the fastest civilization in humans, it's a positive force, we should embrace it.

<center>***Why I think the idea of unfairness comes down to your selfishness***</center>
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We tend to always wan to have it all,
We always think the world owes us anything, and when we don't get it, we blame whomever is responsible.
We forget that most people have weakness, and we too have our strengths as well.
We tend to not want good things happen to other people because we think we deserve them, and when some people get even more of those good things we always do think that more would have been given to us. it's selfishness isn't it?
We think we are good by thinking that some people are unfair to us, In most cases it's our problem.
And because we think we are so special, we think the world is supposed to give us attention and attend to our needs.

<center>***What if we embraced the world's unfairness!***</center>
Some people are always going to be better than us, whether they worked hard or not.
Some people are always going to be born in richer families whether we like it or not.
Some people are always  going to look better than us however much effort we do apply or not.

Play your part:
It's always not the reason to give up.
Let's love people with their strengths as well, they might have worked hard or been lucky, whatever..We too have our strengths.
At the end being on top is only for those who can, there are many fields we can always top If we long to be toppers.
So,
Maybe life is not unfair to you, maybe you think you should own everything.  and that's the problem.

Thanks for reading.
@tesaganewton 
see you.