Destress by Removing Crap from Your Life by thedarkhorse

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Destress by Removing Crap from Your Life
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Recently I started looking around the house realizing that there was a lot of stuff that just wasn't needed. Most importantly there was a ton of stuff in my office which had turned it into a storage room vs a workable office. 

In reality I work at the kitchen table most days as there is lots of sunlight, plenty of space to spread out, and allows me to stay in the middle of everything going on in the house while still working. Multitasking isn't really an issue for me so listening to the kids talk in the background doesn't bother me and I have a better idea of what is going on in their lives this way.

But still there is no reason to have an entire room sitting there cluttered with so much stuff that you can't walk into it without stepping over a box. This room looked like it belonged on an episode of hoarders....ok it wasn't really that bad but close enough it was stressful.

Getting my head around purging my office was a process as psychologically and emotionally I was attached to my stuff. But in reality so much of it was things I hadn't even thought to use, look at, and more definitely hadn't needed in years. So this said I wondered why all this stuff mattered to me and then I remembered the old sale trick of let them hold it and they will take ownership of it. Then take it away from them and their brain will literally insist on getting it back. Why are we hard wired like this...who cares, but knowing we are made me understand why I had held onto everything.

I could have just gone in and organized all this clutter. Put a bunch into bins and stored it away in the closet. But the reality is this wouldn't have helped as the clutter would still be there.

We collect stuff for a wide range of reasons, those things you think you'll need one day, or that book you swear you'll get around to reading, or maybe clothes that you really hope to fit into again, or or or. Really what clutter you have or why it accumulated isn't important, but what is important is the psychological impact all this clutter has on you.

>Whether it be your closet or office desk, excess things in your surroundings can have a negative impact on your ability to focus and process information. That’s exactly what neuroscientists at Princeton University found when they looked at people’s task performance in an organized versus disorganized environment. The results of the study showed that physical clutter in your surroundings competes for your attention, resulting in decreased performance and increased stress. Source:LifeHacker.com

Sitting in front of TV bopping around the internet as I normally do while the Wife insists on watching the news at night I ran into an article that reinforced what I had been thinking. My Clutter was actually causing me stress and hurting my productivity.

So the last 4 straight days I have been dealing with the emotional stress of filling trash bags full of crap. Because honestly once I looked closer at what I was holding onto I realized it wasn't really important, it was just crap. None of these items were required for me to live day to day and none of them put food on the table or kept a roof over my families head, so it was deemed Crap.

My Wife thinks this is a little over the top, but my Desk is even up for sale and sitting in the garage right now. Instead a folding table was moved into my office which removed drawers to fill with clutter. This table will be used multiple times during the year when we have people for outdoor dining so it needs to stay clear of all clutter going forward. 

So what of all the crap? Some went to donation, some went to be recycled, some to the trash, and some was inventory that I forget was sitting there and was like found money. But in the end it's all either dealt with or ready for inventory processing. 

In the end I tackled the worst room in our house and now my office is a usable space again that is stress free when I walk into it. Feeling accomplished right now!

So what can you declutter in your life to reduce some stress? I challenge you not only to think about it, but commit to decluttering some part of your life and then post your results. No SBD rewards for this challenge, just the benefits of less stress and the feeling of accomplishment. 

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@annhoyblog ·
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So true!  Physical clutter in your environment competes for your attention and decreases clutter.
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@rhyscn ·
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I am a big advocate of this. As Jordan Peterson says, how can you solve more complex problems in your life if you can't get your 'house in order'. I truly believe it is a microcosm of our life.
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@lynncoyle1 ·
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Hey there @thedarkhorse!  I wondered what you have been up to :)

I have three things I want to say to you about all of this:

* *organisation* is the key to success.  At work, at home, in your psyche...all of it.  My son told me the other day he was feeling a little anxious and realised that by cleaning up his apartment, it reduced the stress and anxiety immediately.  I know when I was teaching, I *had* to keep my desk organised for all of the obvious reasons, but more for my own 'head-space'.  Good for you for really tackling it and not just stuffing the 'crap' in boxes and hiding it all in the closet.  

* you're probably making your wife nervous because you may start doing this to all of the rooms in the house, and start touching *her stuff* :)

*  and lastly, be careful because you appear to be a spits-throw away from *two back packs and a suitcase* :)

See you guys soon in Mexico!!
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@thedarkhorse ·
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Yeah I have taken way more time around the house and backed off Steemit for a few days. Really needed this and it! 

I wouldn't dare touch my Wife's stuff. That would be very risky...lol

Might need a little more then 2 backpacks, but just removed probably an SUV worth of crap from my life. Figure I'll do that 4 or 5 times over once I start tackling the garage. Need to have a big garage sale this year and if stuff doesn't sell it's being donated or trashed. 

Never been to Mexico, but it would be on my list of places to spend a few weeks or months. Would love to just spend some time in a number of places to find where I love.
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@lynncoyle1 ·
Sometimes it's nice to close the laptop and walk away from this for a day or so isn't it?  It can become a little too all-consuming...for me anyway ;)

Spoken like a smart husband!! *Never* touch your wife's stuff ;)

Ahhh yes, the dreaded garage!  I remember all too well; in Vancouver where my house was, there weren't really basements like in your neck of the woods or where I grew up in Ontario.  So the garage became the catch-all; mine even had a loft that I'd packed with crap too :)

And if you've never been to Mexico, put Playa del Carmen on your list.  This time of year especially...for you I mean, to get out of the ugly weather, although I guess Spring is soon in the air there!

Glad you're back!  Cheers :)
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@deliberator ·
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I hear you on this one, I have this old farm house I only use in the summer and even then it is only 1 room out of 10, for my daughter to sit and draw or eat. So I started filling 1 room with motorbike parts, then motorbikes, then 1 room became two and two became 4, now I am tripping over parts every time I go there My friend, I really do need a clear out indeed.
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@thedarkhorse ·
Might be time to sell a few parts that you now realistically you aren't going to have time in life to use. It can become a "problem" when you are really into something....lol.
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@deliberator ·
I know bud, it is a problem, I have half filled a barn up with them also lol. The basement is getting full of brand new lego sets I will never open, I have a cupboard full of vinyl albums I will never play, I like collecting ltd edition coloured vinyl, and I have a room half full with vintage computers and consoles, where does it stop I do not know.
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@slobberchops ·
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I'm with you here @thedarkhorse, My house is equally cluttered, although not quite up to an episode of Hoarders!

My problem is it's the wife's stuff and not mine. Getting her to shed it is like pulling teeth. What's real junk and what's sellable, its a big task I tell ya!
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@thedarkhorse ·
Do a little reading on the topic of clutter and the stress it causes. Then share the articles with your Wife and see if she can wrap her head around clearing out 1 room. For most they say start with the smallest project first and then move forward. I had a need to make my office clear so I went after one of the worst rooms first, but it's not suggested to go this direction. Heck even clearing out your "junk drawer" is a big mental step. I just did that too as I wanted to keep getting more done.
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@winstonalden ·
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I go through big phases of decluttering as well. Then, suddenly, I find I'm spending more time obsessing whether to throw stuff away than I'm spending being productive. Why is it so hard to strike a balance?

If you haven't already, check out theminimalists.com, and their documentary on Netflix.
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@thedarkhorse ·
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That is why I just said F it and focused on the room for 4 days. Moving a huge Hon desk with a return and file cabinet out of my office wasn't an easy task. Plus I had to make room in the garage to store it while I'm trying to sell it so actually created more work there. But yeah it's good that this is done as I really need to focus on work for a few days now and catch up.

Will have a look at that site for sure. Starting to think I want WAY less stuff in my life.
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@codypanama ·
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Some 15 years ago I got rid of everything that I could not fit in a backpack. It took several years to complete the task but was refreshing and took me on several great adventures only because I was always ready to go anywhere. Being a Sailor I started looking at ads for crew and the first night found a boat in Florida needing a Captain which led to a full winter blowing around the Carribean. 
That reminds me of a Blog or 10 I need to write. LOL
so many stories, so little time.
Cheers
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@thedarkhorse ·
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I'll get there over time. Really other then a laptop and some clothes I clothes I don't need much. So many items I own revolve around the house like tools, snow blower, ext. Then the rest revolves around my businesses and I'm simplifying this a lot by narrowing my focus and moving more towards digital based business. If I can get 100% digital my life changes drastically as bills can be paid no matter where I'm calling home.
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@beestrong · (edited)
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Love it...i took my decluttering to the ultimate point and sold everything i own, including my home and now own 60kilos of stuff in 3 boxes in thailand nepal and uk...having virtually nothing has been one of the most liberating things i have ever done. The stuff we accumulate, our possessions are like anchors that keep tied to a place or life and this endledd comsumpution drains our money which could be used for more empowering things such as travel experiences education investments etc...
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@thedarkhorse ·
I read your [intro post](https://steemit.com/introduceyourself/@beestrong/strong-by-name-strong-by-nature-changing-everything-my-second-life) and others and gave you some votes there too. Hope that maybe @lynncoyle1 and a couple other great people who have commented here see this too and can give you a little boost. I resteemed your intro post in an attempt to give you some more exposure.

Thanks for stopping by and taking the time to engage here. It's a great way to start building up your account! I'm amazed at people that can sell off everything and just pick up and move. Truly want to try and make it happen, but until I can figure out how to provide for my family while traveling around the world it's just a dream which I'm working on details to turn into a goal. Goals have dates and action plans, without those things they will never happen.
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@beestrong ·
Interesting....especially considering family. Ive got 2 sons and once they left home it was clear that i had done my job and overcame many.of my limiting beliefs and it was time for me. I do think having children can make the big decision to go more difficult but there are always ways. Since i sold everything i finally had money. they both at some point asked for a loan-no problem-happy to for the first time in my life be able to give them something money related (i was always too poor and they'd gone without so much growing up) however my current financial life plan means i will probably die penniless...not so great for my sons...so i have asked them to repay their loans by taking out life insurance policies on me..so they will get something when i die. Our lives are so much more than money and I believe i have been showing my.kids through my life that buying into stuff is not the way to gain freedom. Freedom is much much simpler and cheaper than we are sold and told..
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@lynncoyle1 ·
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Hi @beestrong, so nice to meet you...I think we might be kindred spirits!  My husband @briancourteau and I did the same...but we ended up in Mexico (from Canada).  Our last day in Canada, I asked Brian to come for a car ride, then we got to a lady's house and I told him he'd need a screwdriver to take the plates off because we were there to sell the car ;)  We walked back to our hotel for our last night, and headed out the next day.  We have never looked back!

I will have a look at your Intro post and leave you some comments about a couple of great groups here that help out new folks, if you're interested!

Thanks for the shout-out  @thedarkhorse!  I bet you've been talking with your wife *now* about all this ;)
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@beestrong ·
Hey @lynncoyle1 
I reckon so.....
I was lucky i didnt have any else to persuade. Just me myself and i. Admittedly my sons were surprised and shocked but i do it inspire them.
I bet you both had a "journey" to get to that point where you realised you were done!!
 @thedarkhorse sell that shit!! Stuff is such an anchor. Admittedly i dont know what your dreams or goals are and i didnt for years. But if it is to travel and get away, stop buying stuff. 
We are constantly told that stuff will make us happy...hmmmmmm does it? 
Everytime you wanna buy something ask
Do i need it?
How many of it do i already own?
How many nights accommodation would it pay for in my dream location?
Will it make me fat? (I know but i didmt realise how much money i wasted on food that was making me fat and unhealthy) 
And then if you decide not to buy it, congratulate yourself by puting the money in new account that will pay for your future dreams...believe me...it can chane your life and bring you everything ...
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@beestrong ·
Hey @lynncoyle1 
I reckon so.....
I was lucky i didnt have any else to persuade. Just me myself and i. Admittedly my sons were surprised and shocked but i do it inspire them.
I bet you both had a "journey" to get to that point where you realised you were done!!

 @thedarkhorse sell that shit!! Stuff is such an anchor. Admittedly i dont know what your dreams or goals are and i didn't for years. But getting away does seem to be part of it, i recommend- stop buying stuff. 
We are constantly told that stuff will make us happy...hmmmmmm does it? 
Everytime you wanna buy something ask
Do i need it?
How many of it do i already own?
How many nights accommodation would it pay for in my dream location?
Will it make me fat? (I know but i didmt realise how much money i wasted on food that was making me fat and unhealthy) 
And then if you decide not to buy it, congratulate yourself by puting the money in new account that will pay for your future dreams...believe me...it can chance your life and bring you everything ...
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@snowpea ·
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Minimalism will truly give a person peace. The only drawback is there have been countless times I've thrown something away, only to want it back for a legitimate reason. Great job cleaning everything up! The process can be a pain, but it's so worth it!

I tagged you in a challenge yesterday called love it/shove it if you're interested! In order for us to get to know each other better, we list 5 things we love, and 5 things we'd rather not have in our lives. I hope you'd like to join in!! Have a great day @thedarkhorse!
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@thedarkhorse ·
I will take a look at the challenge and give it a go. Thanks for thinking of me.

Hate when you are looking for something that you "know" you own only to realize that you gave it away or tossed it. This is a downside to moving towards more of minimalistic life.
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@muhammadazzikra ·
Nice post, nice to meet you @thedarkhorse
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