The Mutual Compression in the Home. by valenlove

english · @valenlove · May 20 '18

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The Mutual Compression in the Home.

<div class="text-justify">The word "to be understood" plays a fundamental role in family dialogue. It is as necessary as air for the lungs, as light for the eyes.

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Certainly to understand oneself requires the duty of placing oneself in the place of other people, respecting their points of view, whether it be of the father, mother, son or brother. Be willing to take the here and now in a positive way, allowing others a space to show their own being. It also requires that you should be attentive to all the people that make up the family group, support it and create emotional bonds, while remaining sincere, honest with yourself, avoid making judgments and much less place yourself in the role of evaluator.

A common complaint that we always hear in children is "my parents do not understand me, they are in another world", certainly the comprencios requires training.

Understanding allows each member of the family to be who they are, so they gain the trust of the other and make them feel good inside the home. Not feeling understood on the contrary, causes disappointment and isolation; you lose confidence in yourself and in others.

Always have the family is a learning school in mutual understanding. Always assuming the virtues and faults of the other, each member is a different volume of a large library, which by joining them all enjoys a great reading.</div>

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