《颜氏家训》有这样的说法:“兄弟不睦,则子侄不爱;子侄不爱,则群从疏薄。”这句话的意思是说:兄弟之间不和睦,就不会关心、爱护自己的侄子女,侄子女之间也不会有感情,家族中子侄辈就会亲情淡漠,关系疏远。这些朴素却非常重要的道理,值得我们每一个人深思。 《弟子规》说“兄道友,弟道恭。兄弟睦,孝在中。” 做兄长的要关爱弟弟,做弟弟的要尊敬兄长。兄弟之间和睦友爱,孝道也就包含在其中了。 兄弟之间要互帮互助、和睦相处,兄弟间能够做到兄友弟恭,那父母就不用为兄弟二人的关系操心了。这样无疑就减少了父母的烦恼,这不仅是兄弟之“悌”,也是对父母的“孝”。作为兄姊,“悌”之道在于关爱弟妹;作为弟妹,“悌”之道在于尊敬兄姊。 古往今来,历史上流传的孝悌故事有很多,孔融让梨就是其中的一个。孔融让梨之所以能成为兄弟间友爱的故事典范,就是因为孔融作为弟弟,能够主动将更好的东西让出去,这是一般年幼的孩子所办不到的,因此显得弥足珍贵。 事实上,谦让的品德并不是天生就有的,而是后天通过德行教育所培养出来的,这也正是《弟子规》的训蒙意义之所在。 在晋朝,有个小孩叫庾衮,刚好他们村落有瘟疫。他的兄弟已经死了几个,另外有一个兄弟已经卧病在床。为了不至于让孩子都死掉,长辈们要带着一些孩子赶快离去。结果这个庾衮不愿意走,他说:“我不能放下我的兄长不管。”长辈们一再劝说:“这太危险了,我们走!”他就对这些长辈说:“我天生不怕病,你们就让我留下来吧吧!”最后,长辈拗不过他,只好依他了。就这样,庾衮亲自帮他的哥哥熬药,常常半夜还在其他兄长的灵前痛哭。后来,由于他这份对兄弟的友爱,他的哥哥竟然奇迹般地好起来了。 兄弟间和睦共处才能家庭和谐,所以,兄长慈爱,弟弟恭敬,让父母不再为兄弟间的情谊而担心也是孝的一种。 # 本帖 steem 首发 [ 兄弟和睦 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200820hemu) # 最近新帖 1. [ 子从父之令,可谓孝 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200818zixiao) 2. [ 至要莫如教子 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200817jiaozi) 2. [ 北京因为新冠疫情全面取消新发地市场零售功能 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200816xinfadi) 2. [ 黎智英交保50万元获准保释 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200814baoshi) 2. [ 无罪蒙冤的张玉环要求国家赔偿和追责为何不可? ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200813zuize) 2. [ 特朗普封禁TikTok是国际化分工逆流 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200812niliu) 2. [ 美国利用签证问题刁难驻美中国籍记者 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200809jizhe) 2. [ 特朗普帮助微软抢劫抖音海外版TikTok ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200808qianjie) 2. [ 特朗普为提升民调狂禁抖音海外版TikTok ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200807jindou) 2. [ 美方至今拒绝给中国记者续签 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200806jizhe) 2. [ 传言中国新冠病毒的疫苗8月份可用 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200805yimiao) 2. [ 以牙还牙的外交战从关闭总领事馆开始 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200803huanya) 2. [ 浙江大学学生违纪处理办法对付违法学生? ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200730wefa) 2. [ 天才还是天才他爹? ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200723tiancai) 2. [ 独山县400亿元举债发展的烂摊子 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200718juzhai) 2. [ 美国明星纷纷宣布竞选总统,靠谱吗? ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200715mingxin) 2. [ 代言爱钱进不是最后一个 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200710daiyan) 2. [ 特朗普独立日煽动民粹? ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200707mincui) 2. [ 台陆委会对台湾民众渲染“因言获罪” ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200704yan) 2. [ 放松警惕,是新冠疫情防控最大的危险 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200630fangsong) 2. [ 美国疫情再次失控,特朗普连任要崩溃 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200630meiguo) 2. [ 瑞幸咖啡收到退市通知,股价已跌九成 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200625ruixin) 2. [ 国美创始人黄光裕已出狱,概念股暴涨 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200624huang) 2. [ 韩国瑜败局早就注定:留任杨明州 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200623yang) 2. [ 国民党少了黄复兴特种党部,民进党多了国民特种党部 ](https://steemit.com/@zhtb/20200621dangbu)
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voter | weight | wgt% | rshares | pct | time |
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gerber | 0 | 38,142,537,566 | 10.9% | ||
ezzy | 0 | 723,309,749,976 | 10.9% | ||
exyle | 0 | 822,025,855,305 | 10.9% | ||
matzep | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
dine77 | 0 | 146,115,002,463 | 9.23% | ||
topzehn | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
wissenschaft | 0 | 62,862,823 | 100% | ||
steemvote | 0 | 504,424,020,850 | 28.11% | ||
steemwin | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
karja | 0 | 101,199,538,978 | 5% | ||
tipu | 0 | 25,347,901,888,534 | 50.34% | ||
accelerator | 0 | 59,497,757,062 | 10.9% | ||
prepper | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
kidstv | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
khaleelkazi | 0 | 1,467,966,250 | 10.9% | ||
emrebeyler | 0 | 0 | 10.9% | ||
aezakmi | 0 | 4,244,861,927 | 100% | ||
fortunex | 0 | 18,950,283,698 | 100% | ||
r351574nc3 | 0 | 25,966,222,484 | 20% | ||
upmewhale | 0 | 60,810,979,740,551 | 57% | ||
nealmcspadden | 0 | 13,012,524,396 | 10.9% | ||
heidimarie | 0 | 34,084,842,600 | 10% | ||
freeupvote | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
icuz | 0 | 1,251,317,573 | 67% | ||
katysavage | 0 | 35,144,896,920 | 100% | ||
whalewatch | 0 | 156,067,968 | 100% | ||
raise-me-up | 0 | 31,506,515,436 | 100% | ||
myup | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
steembeamer | 0 | 40,525,432 | 100% | ||
salty-mcgriddles | 0 | 3,138,550,769 | 20% | ||
cashbot | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
barski | 0 | 3,760,016,546 | 20% | ||
dlike | 0 | 51,062,120,877 | 3.9% | ||
hf20 | 0 | 7,738,912,633 | 100% | ||
limka | 0 | 34,451,530 | 100% | ||
lookplz | 0 | 423,583,728 | 0.86% | ||
steem.leo | 0 | 13,478,844,880 | 10.9% | ||
leo.voter | 0 | 1,018,138,560 | 10.9% | ||
daddysavage | 0 | 26,751,835,816 | 100% | ||
stonertv | 0 | 0 | 100% | ||
maxuvd | 0 | 5,733,675,362 | 11% | ||
maxuve | 0 | 37,704,281,483 | 10.46% | ||
dappcoder | 0 | 133,339,445,012 | 100% | ||
tex.fund | 0 | 1,153,064,266 | 100% | ||
hnt | 0 | 707,377,770,248 | 100% | ||
acu.fund | 0 | 1,285,273,964 | 100% | ||
mana.bank | 0 | 1,252,690,042 | 100% | ||
acu.fund.witness | 0 | 1,186,183,374 | 100% | ||
spbank | 0 | 1,065,291,599 | 100% | ||
yaowl | 0 | 1,154,023,952 | 100% | ||
alanyao | 0 | 6,669,736,263,053 | 100% | ||
missingwolf | 0 | 1,320,119,693 | 100% | ||
xinhuaren | 0 | 1,174,991,350 | 100% | ||
acufund | 0 | 1,169,191,974 | 100% | ||
downvoter | 0 | 1,173,588,829 | 100% | ||
manabot1 | 0 | 1,191,664,790 | 100% | ||
manabot | 0 | 1,654,646,220 | 100% | ||
huaren.news | 0 | 6,464,896,439,519 | 100% | ||
cameron.barnes | 0 | 1,107,375,286 | 100% | ||
manabot2 | 0 | 1,190,662,215 | 100% | ||
sherryzhou | 0 | 2,718,428,300,183 | 100% | ||
goodvoter | 0 | 1,157,311,772 | 100% | ||
anonymity.inlet | 0 | 1,641,600,857 | 100% | ||
manabot3 | 0 | 1,168,828,738 | 100% | ||
manabank | 0 | 1,156,839,044 | 100% | ||
texfund | 0 | 1,166,917,423 | 100% | ||
goodreader | 0 | 2,513,718,423,920 | 100% | ||
goodposter | 0 | 1,194,386,831 | 100% | ||
goodcurator | 0 | 1,172,762,155 | 100% | ||
goodauthor | 0 | 1,166,872,768 | 100% | ||
shanyi | 0 | 1,175,700,627 | 100% | ||
yuwenzhaobin | 0 | 1,173,110,895 | 100% | ||
huangyiru | 0 | 1,648,543,694 | 100% | ||
qiuruling | 0 | 1,213,771,893 | 100% | ||
tongpingxia | 0 | 1,156,864,990 | 100% | ||
fushuo | 0 | 1,157,656,448 | 100% | ||
downscaner | 0 | 1,178,068,573 | 100% | ||
wang.han | 0 | 1,587,783,259 | 100% | ||
anonym.inlet | 0 | 1,661,466,757 | 100% | ||
rongyongyu | 0 | 1,172,749,566 | 100% | ||
heyaochen | 0 | 1,167,572,277 | 100% | ||
miyijuan | 0 | 1,167,754,940 | 100% | ||
xiangsong | 0 | 1,154,890,927 | 100% | ||
haiyaochang | 0 | 1,158,482,625 | 100% | ||
zhangyanxie | 0 | 1,162,893,733 | 100% | ||
jiduanren | 0 | 1,177,233,352 | 100% | ||
hanyiya | 0 | 1,168,939,930 | 100% | ||
guxiefeng | 0 | 1,169,194,288 | 100% | ||
hejuangang | 0 | 1,156,597,556 | 100% | ||
mengyin | 0 | 1,188,772,454 | 100% | ||
liaohepeng | 0 | 1,192,328,658 | 100% | ||
gaituan | 0 | 1,160,466,854 | 100% | ||
quxibei | 0 | 1,194,045,001 | 100% | ||
realmankwon.cur | 0 | 29,573,442 | 50% | ||
huarennews | 0 | 1,614,826,370 | 100% | ||
qukehan | 0 | 1,180,571,066 | 100% | ||
lvziyun | 0 | 1,169,526,684 | 100% | ||
telangpu | 0 | 1,177,051,094 | 100% | ||
chinesebi | 0 | 1,369,280,937 | 100% | ||
staryao | 0 | 1,708,110,394,348 | 100% | ||
william.turner | 0 | 1,275,019,384 | 100% | ||
alyssa.mey | 0 | 1,174,545,262 | 100% | ||
raven.mottram | 0 | 1,213,392,944 | 100% | ||
brian.shanno | 0 | 1,158,729,089 | 100% | ||
annmarie.prigge | 0 | 1,159,264,838 | 100% | ||
meaghan.dajer | 0 | 1,164,591,135 | 100% | ||
longye | 0 | 1,669,228,947 | 100% | ||
wangping | 0 | 1,162,887,379 | 100% | ||
likeqianq | 0 | 1,184,834,998 | 100% | ||
jinpingxi | 0 | 1,188,808,223 | 100% | ||
gavinyao | 0 | 1,198,918,730 | 100% | ||
dragon8king | 0 | 1,152,870,403 | 100% | ||
gavin.yao | 0 | 1,154,921,575 | 100% | ||
wangfang | 0 | 1,156,247,431 | 100% | ||
zhangjin | 0 | 1,164,164,874 | 100% | ||
china.news | 0 | 1,172,233,840 | 100% | ||
mingji | 0 | 1,176,280,747 | 100% | ||
zhtb | 0 | 1,155,216,515 | 100% | ||
liuyan | 0 | 1,163,918,870 | 100% | ||
newcoder | 0 | 1,649,293,534 | 100% | ||
sunyuchen | 0 | 1,182,004,477 | 100% | ||
trxsun | 0 | 1,164,515,725 | 100% | ||
coderhappy | 0 | 1,163,543,288 | 100% | ||
steem.voice | 0 | 1,157,883,938 | 100% | ||
gongsunyan | 0 | 1,176,484,843 | 100% | ||
siturenxiong | 0 | 1,226,454,591 | 100% | ||
yangshuyi | 0 | 1,181,753,498 | 100% | ||
yukaiyi | 0 | 1,196,544,095 | 100% | ||
coolvoter | 0 | 1,153,895,086 | 100% | ||
news.bot | 0 | 1,158,994,978 | 100% | ||
douxili | 0 | 1,095,481,284 | 100% | ||
voterking | 0 | 1,172,778,295 | 100% | ||
aivote | 0 | 29,273,241,411 | 100% | ||
yangsiyu | 0 | 1,159,758,780 | 100% | ||
hivesteem | 0 | 1,158,557,818 | 100% | ||
hbi | 0 | 1,358,498,682 | 100% | ||
steemflag | 0 | 14,784,109,474 | 100% | ||
bugabuga | 0 | 13,534,208,844 | 10% | ||
ezvote | 0 | 10,065,116,873 | 1.2% | ||
felixday | 0 | 5,563,948,276 | 15% | ||
stonervotes | 0 | 216,477,957 | 1.2% | ||
thegreatomni | 0 | 335,459,736 | 100% | ||
onlyaruse | 0 | 421,565,158 | 88% | ||
unalia | 0 | 421,565,947 | 88% | ||
totempole | 0 | 419,532,451 | 88% | ||
piercingeyes | 0 | 421,565,614 | 88% | ||
shortlived | 0 | 465,418,886 | 88% | ||
yeaman | 0 | 465,418,948 | 88% | ||
xati | 0 | 465,415,113 | 88% | ||
kitari | 0 | 444,208,399 | 88% | ||
thefrugalist | 0 | 386,087,513 | 100% | ||
chadson | 0 | 118,936,449 | 100% |