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Feeling of guilt by larose

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Feeling of guilt
 Being a mother brings a lot of guilt. Many parents I know spend a lot of time questioning almost everything they do. We want to be the best for our children. Yeah, I'm a bit off. When I'm honest with myself, sometimes I know I'm guilty of teaching my child to come to me for happiness. And I know that I am not capable of everlasting happiness forever.
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And at what point does that leave me? What about my daughter? I can't shape happiness. Most of the time, I don't even have the capacity to do that. And I'm probably trying harder for my daughter's happiness. Because in his happiness, I find happiness. Sometimes I need that.

So basically, according to this article, I'm a complete failure. At least I felt this way after reading.
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But then a friend said something: Perhaps we should put aside our obsession of happiness, try to shape all kinds of human emotions so that our children can cope with good, bad and everything between them.

That was it. That was the answer I needed to hear.

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