The failure of love begins with dependence by nakoruru

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The failure of love begins with dependence
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<p>You can have a good life alone, but why are you looking for a lover?</p>
<p>Every New Year&#x27;s Day, parents and relatives keep pushing for marriage, why?</p>
<p>It is said that two people who love each other should be the shield and support of each other, support each other, trust each other, and walk hand in hand.</p>
<p>So, is it wrong for two people to fall in love and rely on each other?</p>
<p>Perhaps many people will have this question, and many people will also think, in this world, if two people who love each other can&#x27;t rely on each other, who else can they rely on?</p>
<p>In love, there is nothing wrong with depending on one another. What fault is it with each other? And the level of dependence.</p>
<p>Dependence on love is limited, unlike your dependence on parents, you can do whatever you want, whatever you want. Dependent on love, you must be built on the premise that you still have yourself, and on the premise that you are also dependent on yourself at the same time.</p>
<p>A few days ago, my friend Criestine was in a gloomy state and wanted to ask why many times, but was afraid she would give up before she had anything to say.</p>
<p>We don&#x27;t know the reason for her unhappiness until later, when she takes the initiative to talk about it.</p>
<p>The Criestine and her boyfriend had been together for several years, but the other party never mentioned marriage. The parents in the family have urged them. But as a shy girl, The Criestine is not shy about taking the initiative to tell her boyfriend. about marriage. She is a more traditional girl. Apart from the usual work, he didn&#x27;t say anything about cooking and housework. All the friends thought that Criestine&#x27;s married life must be happy in the future.</p>
<p>But some time ago, Criestine changed jobs once, and her emotional problems also arose when she changed jobs.</p>
<p>After Criestine resigned from his original company, he stayed at home for some time, because there was no source of income, his girlfriend was responsible for all the expenses he spent with her boyfriend. Little A felt nothing at first, and he spent a lot of money on his girlfriend. Even if the thing he likes is more expensive, he will save money and give it to her. During the break, he would pay a little more for two people&#x27;s expenses. Isn&#x27;t that normal? With a boyfriend, he can also rest for a while, all with him!</p>
<p>There was nothing really wrong with the Criestine&#x27;s idea. If two people in love care too much, it&#x27;s not love. At first his girlfriend felt the same way, but after a year, the Criestine didn&#x27;t intend to find a job, the Girlfriend got impatient several times and was encouraged, and the Criestine didn&#x27;t act.</p>
<p>There is a conflict between two people when they eat out. After some bickering, the girlfriend said directly at the dinner table that Criestine was eating her food, and the flower was hers. What qualifications is he fighting?</p>
<p>Even the kind Criestine felt very hurt when she heard this, and left the hotel in tears.</p>
<p>After that, the girlfriend also apologized to the Criestine, but this incident left a deep wound in the Criestine&#x27;s heart. He didn&#x27;t know whether to forgive his girlfriend or to have sex with him. He reconciled.</p>
<p><strong>Feelings, not everyone wants to let you rely, and sometimes you won&#x27;t depend on other people that you are close to his appearance, but let him take the burden, to make him feel that you can&#x27;t do it without him being humble.</strong></p>
<p>Though it may not be on purpose, if you have a lot of respect for the other person, how can you say anything hurtful? But because in his heart, you are dependent on him and cannot live without him, whatever he does, there will be no consequences.</p>
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