I totally agree. Sadly, people spend thousands of dollars and hours of therapy to be allowed to nurse these wounds; without being brought to the awareness that hurting people hurt others; and the power to move beyond the pain is in learning whatever the life-lesson is and moving on. 

Everyone has wounds; and the power is in rendering powerless those who are at the root. It may sound a bit callous; but, key to causing emotional scars to callus over, and toughen up for the only part of the journey which really matters most: the *now*.

Best regards.

Peace.