Don't complain about things you can't change. If you are a complainer you are quite self-defeating and irritating at the same time. Complaining breeds negativity in the person you complain to thus worsening your condition. If you really want to get out of negative habits then learn how to not complain about things you cannot change. https://assets.entrepreneur.com/content/3x2/2000/20180417185802-GettyImages-658435576.jpeg (https://assets.entrepreneur.com/content/3x2/2000/20180417185802-GettyImages-658435576.jpeg) Think positive. Negative people tend to focus on only the negatives of life. This negative viewpoint affects the way they see life and what they focus on. They tend to see the worst case scenarios and the worst possible outcomes. As a result, they deprive themselves of enjoying good and bad situations in life. Learn to enjoy every moment in life. Instead of focusing on the bad things about life, focus on the good and the beautiful things you have in life. These are the things that will give you joy and happiness. These things are what will make you want to live on. Look for the good in everything. It is easy to be negative and look at the ugliest of defects. However, looking at the ugliest of defects won't help you at all. You should learn to appreciate and take pleasure in what is in front of you. If you have been used to doing something, it might not be as easy as you thought. You might find out that you were wrong and that what you were doing before was not as simple as it looks. Don't lose hope. The problem will come and you will be surprised how you will deal with it. More importantly, don't lose heart because you have been wronged. People are different. Some people are hard workers, while others lack the initiative to get out of bed in the morning. Do your best and if it doesn't work, move on to another person. Don't give up. There are times when life really goes against you. It might be the result of someone's treatment of you or it might be the end of the relationship with someone. At such times, life can become very depressing. However, you can always choose to fight back. Complaining only makes life difficult. Instead of doing nothing, take necessary steps forward to rectify the situation. Learn to manage the problems you face and move on. Remember that there are people out there who love you despite whatever has happened. So, smile and bear it to avoid feeling sad or depressed. If you really want to change something about yourself, it is always better to confront it rather than whine and say everything is going wrong. Don't get into a verbal debate with someone if you disagree with them. You should never try to reason with someone when he is giving you advice. People often complain about things they cannot change. For instance, they might say something like "I am not good in sports" but this is false. They might be right sometimes, but complaining constantly about things does not make one a good sportswoman. Rather, it encourages bad habits. Be positive and optimistic. Instead of focusing on the negatives and describing what a horrible day it was, focus on what could have been. If things could have been different, then why did things turn out the way they did? If you think negative thoughts, you will be negative in your life. If you really want to change something in your life, do not just complain about it, act on it! Some people are stuck on the old negative habit of complaining. This means they feel guilty for complaining, so they just do it and complain even more. Instead of complaining, you can take action and create a positive change in your life. Instead of whining, act. If you are stuck on a habit of complaining, you need to break free from it. You don't have to leave the house, go out and start complaining. Just stop yourself in your tracks and say " Enough already! I don't have to listen to you complain about anything that isn't broken." By doing this, you are setting the stage to change the negative habit that you have.