Well, seems to be where I'm heading! ![IMG_4618.JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmYKb7xYoJ4mKGFbRPLS2Ro3PaCoZithCB5ferDuzmKNLu/IMG_4618.JPG) I turned down a date yesterday because I know they are not the person I am meant to be with. I am planning my life by myself at this age of 59 1/2. In a previous blog post, _Being alone, refreshing or lonely?_ ... I said it's both. And it is. ![IMG_0836.JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmZWShaw3nbkxvWKULhbpBPh6ovqNtVxKbStyh1ZiKvQ6n/IMG_0836.JPG) * Sometimes we want to be alone and other times we feel lonely and want someone. * But if we are not finding the right person, shouldn't we go on with life, and if they are meant to be they will show up? * Not just knock on your door, but knock it down! Well maybe that is a little drastic, but at my age, I am giving myself a license to be drastic! For you young ones out there looking for your soul mate, stay _positive_ and be _strong!_ I believe they are out there for us **all**. Let's hope by finding happiness ourselves, they show up and join us! At least we are doing things we like to do! Planning my list now!