Do you have a crush on someone? You know, you’re so out-of-this-world in love with a guy or girl, but you don’t know if they feel the same way in return.
It’s kind of a bitter sweet situation. You’re all tingly in anticipation that they share the same feelings, while at the same instant, dreading the possibility of complete rejection. So, how do you cope with having a crush on someone?
To have a crush on someone is similar to being infatuated with that person. And, infatuation can be defined as a absurd and usually excessive desire, or love, or adoration of someone (or thing).
Almost everyone, at some time in their life, has experienced feelings of adoration, obsession or ‘puppy love’ for someone, even a movie star, sport’s person, teacher, celebrity or a public figure.
The symptoms are easy to spot. You can’t eat, sleep or stop thinking about the object of your affection. As well, you don’t have an ounce of interest in anything that doesn’t involve your crush. And, people have been kn
A blessed day to all of you my fellow Minnows and to our big brother Dolphins. I send greetings as well to all Steemian Whales who never get tired of helping our community to succeed for more and to the best they can.
Psalm 23 is written by King David and this chapter is considered by many Christian and God fearing people as one of the best-loved, most claimed, most memorized verse in the book of Psalm. David portrayed the kind of intimate relationship the Lord has for him. For David, God is a good Shepherd who always wants to take good care of His sheep. Every word in Psalm 23 is indeed a source of strength, comfort, provision and assurance that we have a Sovereign God—able to provide, great provider and sustainer of all our needs.
In our devotional text today, I see undeniable characteristics of our God as a Good Shepherd.
In verses 1-6, David says:
"The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
No matter what relationship you have with your closed one, it is very important for a person to pay attention to a few things that can help avoid any misunderstandings and arguments. Relationship is a very important part of a human life and without it we are not more than a robot. It is what separates us from other living things on the planet. Human being have this amazing gift to express itself and show its feelings to others. It doesn’t matter whether you are in a corporate world or having a social interaction it is very important for a person to follow and pay attention to some basic things that can really help us to build a better relationship.
Most of the times, misunderstanding develops because we don’t really listen what the other person is trying to say and exp
Heart broken a million times, it took the cold to hold it together
Now instead of unreliable emotions, there's only one weather... Winter!
And it's way colder in here this time
You can feel the lies in each line
he uses on her And her and her all over again
the carrier of pain
He laughs and jokes with her but screws with no emotions
there's a fiery rage in his eyes that you never see even in slow motion
When he's done, he overdoses on sugar to refuel
weird right? sitting still, listening to
high way to hell
Cos he knows he's going there and clearly isn't bothered
or maybe he might be sometimes but not when he's under
The influence of the cold one
But it's not a mental disorder
this is actually way way more
He's made too many mistakes it's so hard for him to see it as such anymore
I'd have told you to run from him but you can't
how can you run from what you don't know or don't even understand?
Nothing can bring more happiness to life than a truly beautiful relationship. Understanding, appreciation, and love that such a relationship can bring are hard to understand if they have not been felt by their own person.
Similarly, many people will not only discover that, but also that nothing can bring such pain as a broken relationship with someone dear to you.
Certainly relationships are extremely important elements of our lives, good and bad, and the great part is that we can do a lot to increase our chances of having successful relationships - rich in happiness, love and understanding.
These are the three most important things underlying most human relationships, but they are not the only ones. Read on, then, a list of all 8 things that build successful relationships.
Love - now, everything depends on the definition you have assigned to love. Love does not just mean you like someone
Being alone isn't bad, a curse or scary and it's definitely not lonely, unless you make it lonely. Being alone is an adventure, a part of your lifes' journey.
Now you might ask yourself why it's better to be alone rather than with someone else. Well I'm not telling you to stay alone forever but as long as you don't find someone who's really caring about you. Being alone is ways better than to settle for shitty dates or even a relationship with someone who doesn't put you first, who doesn't love you unconditionally, who doesn't make you smile.
Es ist nichts schlechtes ungebunden zu sein, schon garkeine Schande und auch nichts wofür man sich schämen müsste. Single zu sein ist ein Abenteuer, ein Abenteuer auf dem Weg deines Lebens.
Okay und jetzt fragt ihr euch sicher, wieso es denn bitte besser sein soll single zu bleiben anstatt eine Beziehung einzugehen. Natürlich sollte niemand für immer allein bleiben, aber jeder sollte nur dann eine Bindung eingehen, wenn man einen Menschen getroffen hat, dem
Hey Steemit friends,
Todays topic: Long Distance Relationship - Do you think you could handle it ???
A lot of you guys probably think a long distance will never worked out whether it's a long distance within a country or between different continents.
What is the first thing you are actually think about when you think about a long distance relationship ?
~ no physical feelings
If one of them popped up in your mind... Yes you are right! That is exactly how a long distance is !!!
There are people who are in a long distance relationship because they study at different universities but they are in the same country and then there are people who never met in person before and only dating online, but then there are people ( including me ) who went abroad to explore the world and suddenly meet someone you fell in love with.
Envision you meet somebody that you're not pulled in to. At that point later, as a few times passes by, all of a sudden, you start to notice all these phenomenal qualities about them that you didn't know existed, and blast! You're enamored! Is that a 90s sitcom plot for sure? I cherish this thought. Numerous specialists exhort that couples ought to be friends first. At that point the relationship depends on individual similarity, not simply sexual science.
New York social psychologist, Dr. Beauty Cornish asserts that sentiments that start as friendships will probably succeed: As friends to begin with, you like each other first. You build up a regard for each other. You're paying
The importance of loving is tremendous and profound, maybe, a greater amount of an effect than one would anticipate. We never know how our activities may influence other individuals, so why not default to love? While singular grown-ups are responsible for their lives and for their behavior, it is an activity of empathy to be aware of those encompassing us. With sympathy, we are interested in understanding what spurs a man to carry on the way they do.
More profound comprehension of a man's behavior enables us to be all the more tolerating, to enable somebody to be the place they should be. On the off chance that we oppose someone's identity, or attempt to change them, we may wind up repressing their development. Unconditional means without conditions, with s
One heart walked sat on the bench,
The other was in a trench,
The words came out of her mouth unhinge,
Made his world... suddenly change,
He couldn't understand why,
She said all relationships will one day die,
He couldn't bring himself to say goodbye,
She wanted to deny,
the love he offered.
He got up and went ahead,
She sat there still cross legged,
He reached his bed,
And then..., his heart was dead.
He shut himself away,
He wasn't part of the family, no, a castaway,
With his heart gone, he was dead only halfway,
Until weeks, no, months went by,
Until he could muster enough strength to cry,
Because her heart was still sat on the bench,
And his was still stuck inside the trench.
I talked about this a few months ago on my personal Facebook for #bellletstalk, I will now share it with my fellow steemians.
About 10 years ago, I started my first serious relationships with someone. At first he was sweet and charming, he was rough around the edges, which should have been a sign for me, but me being so young I just thought it was quirky.
Not long after we started being more serious, he started getting angrier at me for things that were out of my control. He also made ridiculous claims about things that I did or said that never actually happened. I now know that I was victim of gaslighting. Unfortunately, this was just the tip of the iceberg. I was 19 at the time of our first months as a couple and extremely skinny. As time went by, and I got older, my body changed, as they do in your early 20s. He did not like that, and insisted I was just getting fat.
My mother is overweight, and my ex was terrified of me becoming overweight as well, he used my mother to terrify me into eating less an
I was engaged once. I'm pretty sure I never wrote about this fact, but it's true. I still actually have the rings somewhere I believe, but it's clear that it was doomed from the get go. It's kind of funny that we don't realize our own self sabotaging and ego isolation behaviors until we meet someone that we are willing to change them for, and I guess I'm not the o
Why won’t she call? Why is it that every time you want to talk to her she doesn’t call you back?
Simple. Because she is playing mind games with you. What you need to do is give her a piece of her own medicine and not call her as well. Let me explain...
If you don’t call a woman for about a week, they tend to go crazy and start wondering why you haven’t called them back. This is all about emotional power and you need to be at the better end of it. Trust me.
You need to learn how to make her miss you by getting yourself involved with other social things that doesn’t include her. When she notices that you are doing fun and exciting things without her, (by word of mouth of course) she will then open up to you again and start calling you.
It is all about who gives in first. Remember not to call a girl every minute of the day. Not even every day for that matter. If you want to have her call you back make sure she calls you instead by playing the waiting game and not giving in to her mind ga
first cars are a lot like first relationships
you start off not really knowing anything about how to maintain it
things go wrong a lot, they fall apart, the wheels might even come off
everyday their could be a new problem with it
you spend time and effort and money putting things right, when you should just scrap it
you may regret it, you may look back and wonder why you ever put up with that piece of shit
it dose not last as long as you hope it will
but, the first journey in it and the special bond with that car will last forever
because it will always have a special place in your heart
My first car .. SHARE YOURS :) and what you feel about it
I was looking through the photos which was taken during our family trip to Italy and I couldn’t help but look at the photo taken of my parents walking down the street during sunset in Milan.
Couldn’t help but started to think at the end of the day, like what the picture shows, family is the one that will always be walking right beside you. Whether in good times or bad times, family is our bedrock.
So often in this time and age, we are so caught up with work and our mobile devices. Preferring to glue our faces to our mobile devices than to communicate with our families.
We may have lots of friends or office mates and so often we tend to confide in them more than with our family. But in hard and difficult times, Who will be there for us? Chances
It is hard being a new parent, I mean you have a new life that you have to take car off, a life that is dependant upon you and therefore to make sure he/she grows up to be an amazing parent you take tips from other parents.
However, doesn't it seem logical that you should take tips from a kid, to help you understand better what a kid goes through.
Every generation is different and therefore to raise a kid in a new generation, different to yours it's only logical to take help from a generation that's closer to your kids.
Are you friends with a psychopath? Get out of that relationship ASAP!
When folks just accept friends to be whomever they are….that is a kind and generous way to be. However, sometimes that openness bites back and you find yourself in a whirlwind of confusion and isolation and don’t have any idea what happened. You may have just been in a relationship with a psychopath. I mean any kind of relationship….for me it was a friend….a galpal. I thought she came on a bit strong, but I was OK with that….she was so upset about a recent friendship that had dissolved…yep that was the first clue. She was treated so poorly and claimed to do everything right and she was the victim and yep….2nd clue. If this has ever happened to you..forgive yourself…these psychopaths are very good at manipulation and if you don’t see it coming, well why would you…you are thinking this
There are days when nothing seems right. When every shell you pick up on the winding shore is broken; when the silken treasure slips through your fingers too quickly; when comforts are empty and the world is noise. On those jagged edged days, when the wind is screaming for a reason only she understands. And you find yourself all alone.
My fellow Steemit, turn your face to the stars .
There is goodness in the world that even the river of tears cannot erase.
There is love in the world that the numbed armies of fear cannot destroy.
Sometimes that goodness is everywhere apparent. It pours from the heart of every moment. From the light of every smile.
On those soft days, love hides in the eaves to drop like sweet honey on your forehead and sings her lifting lullabies in the arms of the winds.</em