今天对车库进行了一次大扫除。在整理的过程中才发现,占据车库90%空间的,都是孩子们从小到大的各种玩具,以及各种用品。但其中有些玩具从来都没有玩过,就已经不适合孩子们现在的年龄了。还有很多是孩子们过生日时小朋友们送的玩具,有的没有拆封,有的也只是玩过几次就尘封在车库中了。我和媳妇开玩笑说,家中车库现在之所以堆的这么满,都是她母爱泛滥的结果啊。。。 ![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmPUi261w5ZuzPdAQo4dCcSRhpo8Mx47LZBw4oSTUTR5yM/image.png) 图源:Pixabay 在这次整理的过程中,发现更多的还有很多书籍,从孕期胎教,到婴儿辅食,各种启蒙读物,各种游戏,包括国内的,和英国这里买的,中英文的都有。同样,很多书买了之后从未翻开过,现在就变成彻底的累赘了。我还需要花费时间和精力在考虑怎么把它们送到回收站去。 其实很多人,包括我在内,都有一种错觉,很多东西,只要花了钱买回家中,就属于自己的了。其中包括,书籍,玩具,甚至包括孩子的课外班。其实仔细一想,似乎不是这么回事。记得当初在国内工作的时候,特别喜欢购买各种计算机图书,似乎只要把书买回家,它们就属于自己的了。但很多书根本就没有时间读,最后的结局就是束之高阁,慢慢等书中介绍的技术过时了,书也就变成了废品。 其实,如果仔细盘算一下自己的时间,出去工作,吃饭,睡觉,陪伴家人之外,每天剩余的时间就非常有限了。那么在购买书籍的时候就应该考虑到这个因素,看看自己是否有时间去读,然后再决定是否购买。 慢慢的,我就养成了这个习惯,书不到必须要读的时候,不再轻易买书。可能这也和我的职业有关吧,绝大多数的信息都是通过网络获得的。但这样下来,似乎感觉没有了原来的那种“读书债”,也没有了那种压力。 现在很多人都极为推崇极简主义,我周边也有朋友这样做。去他们家中感觉非常舒服。无论在客厅,还是在厨房,车库,都有很大的活动空间。 目前我似乎还没法做到极简主义,但每次清掉一些不用的东西之后,感觉心中都有一种搬掉大石的轻松感,倍感轻松愉快。看样子还要继续扔扔扔啊。
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