很多同事的邮件签名前后都会加上一句话:“I work flexibly - so whilst it suits me to email now, I do not expect a response or action outside of your own working hours.” 其大意就是说,我的工作方式非常灵活,因此尽管现在这个时间适合我来发送邮件,但我不希望在您自己的工作时间之外答复我或采取任何行动。 ![image.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmPJktkZysdCey4r4piRwpmytVGkPeBebFTVvKzDTeNGaG/image.png) 这其中体现了几个意思:首先,你现在看到邮件,可以不回复,也可以不采取行动。第二,尽管我现在在工作,但我理解现在可能并不是你的工作时间,因此你可能并不能立即看到我的邮件。 其实,这其中体现了一个重要的原则:每个人都是不同的个体,因此每个人的生活方式,工作方式,对事情的看法都是不尽相同的。要善于站在对方的角度来思考问题,这样人和人之间才能没有隔阂,有效沟通。 最近遇到了不少正反两方面的例子。首先是给我家干活的一个Builder。和他联系的时候,他即使当时不能够接电话,但过一会总会把电话打回来。和他聊起这件事的时候,他也说有些时候他给别人打电话的时候,别人可能也不接。他完全能够站在对方的角度来考虑问题,对方可能手头有活,不方便接电话。只要最终对方打回来,能够正常沟通,就没有任何问题。 一个反面的例子就是我的一位大学同学。其实关系一直还不错。前一段时间他有件事情和我咨询。当天我的会议一个接一个,一直没有机会给他回复。结果到了晚上给他详细的回复了他的所有问题,并问了一些更近一步的信息。但然后,就没有然后了。老同学似乎和我生气了,可能是怪我没有即时回复吧。 我在不停的思考,我做错了什么吗?让我的老同学对我有看法?难道在会议中也要立刻给他回复一下,我在开会,稍后回复吗?我承认在会议间歇中有去去卫生间,喝口水的时间,但他的问题并不紧急啊。我在之后的回复中他肯定能看到我是在认认真真的回复的。难道多年的老同学,连这点默契都没有吗?多年的职场老手,连这点基本的理解都没有吗? 哎,真的想说一句,理解万岁!
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