My Brother.... Differences and diversity is a common thing as a gift from God Almighty as well as differences that exist in the family, husband and wife are two people who were born and grew up from different families and environments, each husband and wife have different habits, perspectives, and behaviors. When a character marries, these habitual perspectives are combined into 1, but that doesn't mean it can't change for the better. ![IMG_20210721_112148.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmYdGpy3yDXJXGzyep2xha6oFAi38ZNRr7jQr7W5Hpgzn6/IMG_20210721_112148.jpg) ![IMG_20210720_110903.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmTTd9y4Ks5SS5ZT3xZM7Ad7cAxMeksdk4QKUj3GC6i61Y/IMG_20210720_110903.jpg) My Brother... Peaceful conditions in the family do not mean that a family has no problems, but it means that the conditions in which the family is able to organize and choose and resolve the problems that occur, no human being lives without problems, in the family will always be present in changing forms and conditions. change. in every stage of life facing family problems is also a process for us to learn more mature so that each partner is wiser in dealing with problems, therefore married couples should have skills in managing problems or conflicts. ![IMG_20210617_203708.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmVMEteLwMcfV2wJTmuEQ5XQHzFB9P4yvnkrz7GHkgF5Am/IMG_20210617_203708.jpg) My Brother.... Differences in the family are natural, differences can be addressed by getting to know each other better, responses to differences can be divided into three, namely: differences that require understanding, differences that require deeper dialogue and understanding and when differences require change attitude. Examples of differences that require understanding, for example, are differences in hobbies, favorite foods, dress styles, places for entertainment, tastes in music, movies and others. These differences require the patience of all parties to understand the background of the couple and we cannot force our partners to be like us because we often hear that hair may be the same as black but the mind is not the same. ![IMG_20210507_170119.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmS6ac3P6hnfWLRiG1DNk8uZNMQpGZortp1jcbM5LCqnDr/IMG_20210507_170119.jpg) ![IMG_20210508_175650.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmchLHdHmEJcNwQmMFdtcSNqwFgZyT2RjP9RzePFRmwjjX/IMG_20210508_175650.jpg) The second difference is that you need dialogue, for example, cultural differences, these differences need to be discussed so that couples understand the meaning of what they embrace, this happens a lot in marriages of different ethnicities or nations, while the third difference that requires a change in attitude is the difference that is felt to be inconsistent with the norm. Social behavior or behavior that is considered or felt to be disturbing, for example, a husband who has a habit of not telling his partner when traveling does not share difficulties or tell other people about his family's disgrace. My Brother.... Sometimes the difference that arises is the difference in love language, everyone has a different way of showing his love and therefore he expects the same from his partner... Thanks for your attention.... Special thanks: @juichi @tomoyan @japansteemit
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