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Parents have always thought about the children that are their property and that they have to be fully similar, to copy it exactly. A copy, however, is devoid of any beauty, and existence doesn't appreciate that; she enjoy only what is original. We need to help children to grow, so that you exceed. We need to help them not to imitate you. The real duty of parents is to help kids not to imitate them. Children are tempted, by its very nature to imitate and who could imitate? – parents are the closest. Until now, parents have very much appreciated the fact that their own children look like them. And the life of the child is lost, he is not wanted as he is actually. Because of this misconception, to be proud of the children who imitate you, we have created a society in which everyone imitates.
...although the children come into the world through you, they don't belong to you. You can give your love, but should not be to impose by force your ideas They took birth through you, but do not belong to you. You have a past; they have only the future. They will not live your life according to your ideas. They have to lead their lives in agreement with themselves, in freedom, fully responsible, braving all the dangers and obstacles coming their way. Once you have understood that your own children don't belong to you, they belong to existence, and you were only a vehicle, you have to be grateful to existence that it has chosen as an intermediate for the arrival of some wonderful children. You must not interfere in their development, in their potential. Do not impose your own thinking. They will not live the same times, will not be faced with the same problems. Will be part of another world. I don't prepare them for this world, for this society, for this time, because you will create problems. They will not find the place, will not be prepared.
You will allow me so to flourish in the way that is own? You will allow me the freedom to be themselves? If you're ready for all of them, very well. If you don't, the longer you wait, and in the meantime, prepare yourself. Wait for that moment in which you feel perfectly cleansed, and only then give birth to a child. Still, give him your life, your love. Only in this way you will be able to contribute to creating a better world.
Every child believes that the way in which he sees the world is different from that of the parents. He has with all other values. Can I collect shells on the beach, and the parents say: "Throw them out! Why are you wasting your time?” And to him are so beautiful... the Child notes the differences, he sees that their values are different. Parents are desperate for money; he wants to collect butterflies, and I can understand why they are so interested in money. And the parents can not understand what will make the child with those butterflies or flowers. Each child gets to realize that he thinks differently, but he's afraid to assert that justice is on his side.
The best solution in terms of the child would be to leave him in peace. The child must have courage. It's not missing, only that the entire society is done in such a way, that even the beautiful quality of courage, the child is doomed. If parents love their children, will help them to be brave, even if this courage is against them. They will help you to look with courage towards teachers, towards society, towards anyone who tries to destroy their individuality.
Don't forget, until the man will not come to love himself, he will not be able to love someone else; until when the child will not get to observe on himself, he will not be able to comply with someone else Until self-love will not get you to shine in your being, she will not be able to bestow upon others. First you must become a light to yourselves, and only then will overflow on those around you.