 大学毕业，今年正好10年了，10年在同一家公司就没挪过窝。准确的是，大四还没上完就跑来这家公司实习了。 我们公司因为行业关系和规模关系，勾心斗角的事情很少，也不存在站队问题。不过这大约10年的时间，我还是经历（旁观）了两次略微激烈的“干架”。 最近一次就是国庆节放假之前，9.30号爆发的。 事情是这样，同事A是个性格很孤僻的小伙子，来公司也有6年了，这6年期间我和他讲过的话加起来好像都没超过10句，这10句话基本还是项目交流沟通。我一直以为他是那种勤勤恳恳做事的小伙子，结果9.30下午，离下班放假还有3小时的样子，突然同事A就和我前面的两同事B和C怼起来了。感觉好像毫无预兆。突然就爆发了。 大概意思就是现在A的心理很消极，项目上不积极和项目组成员交流，只听一个负责人D的话，其他人和他沟通他都当么听见。 后来负责人D把小伙子A拉去旁边的活动室谈心，本来好好地，突然那边发出几声巨响，摔桌子摔椅子的声音夹杂着几声怒吼... ...我在隔壁办公室吓傻了。原来是A把桌子椅子摔了，囧。可能心中的不满和积怨已经达到峰值，然后又没有和其他人好好沟通就直接爆发了。 后来人事过来两个人进行调节安抚，事情就算过去了。 记得还有一次干架，是在大约7年前。那时候我才来公司两年多。一个出国回来的前辈X，直接在我么面前（当时他的工位就在我对面）把他电脑和键盘砸的稀碎，那次真是把我吓到了！！X爆发的原因是大概嫌弃出国干工程的薪资老板没给到位以及在国外受了委屈之类的。 同事X发完脾气，拿了钱之后，就辞职了。 反正通过以上两件事，我就觉得沟通和事前事后内心建设还是十分重要的。性格过于孤僻，要么你是百年难得一见的奇才天才，要么你就真的难以融与集体，迟早会出问题。还有一点，万事留好证据，如果真的是公司让你受委屈，那么事前一定要双方签好协议，以免日后纠纷起来无凭无据自己变成弱势的一方。 （图片源自pixabay.com）
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