I knew this that resistance does not really solve problems but been honest with yourself does.

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@atmosblack this blog of psychology was really good one. and we should always accept truth.

Lovely article!

Some of my ponderings yesterday were that giving Love to others is multifacetted. 
Fulfilling somebody every wish he or she expresses is only one side of giving Love, and this kind of giving Love is not requiring us to really know that person. That probably the most common manner of giving Love in Love relationships. 
Yet the other part of the Love giving in Love relationships is that we don't fulfill that person every wish he or she expresses, especially when that person doesn't know what they really want. This kind of Love giving is much more deeper rooted and requires us to know that person on a much deeper level, which we only can when we know ourselves from our deepest core.

The reason I say this is because when we really love someone we tend to want to fulfill them every wish they express. Yet what we REALLY want is that they feel as good as possible. So when that person expresses a wish yet doesn't really know what they truly want and what is good for them and what not, NOT fulfilling them that certain kind of wish is a true act of Love because WE know them better than they do. 

I guess this is how we really assist loved ones to discover who they really are with no resistance. :)

@atmosblack  Wow, I think it is a sunflower 🌻, it looks very nice seeds in it, and the seed is made from oil so that the farmers earn a lot of money, sunflower 🌻 basically looks at the sun, it always looks very beautiful Just as much as we talk about flowers, flowers are the natural resources, the main source of beauty is the flowers, flowers that keep the purity of innocent mind, the flowers that do not live well, they killed people. Can, flowers surround our home, office, school, college, all the beauty enhances, what do you think ???

Love and Blessings to you too Atmos!

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great article i believe that one  should overcome their flaws and all their weaknesses and ignore all the social stigmas in the society but isn't it that one should always believe in himself and believe that a human can do anything

Beautifully written! I can relate ofcourse 😉 Afraid of what might happen if I succeed. And I keep telling myself lies to stay in my comfort zone. I am currently reading a course in miracles. 😊 Btw, ayahuasca is a very helpful teacher for me to wake up from this dream. I am very grateful she did this for me. Very powerful plant . Thanks for sharing🙏❤️

I’m not talking about honesty in the conventional sense. Generally, when we think honesty, we think honesty with others. That’s important, and that develops naturally with awakening. What I mean by gentle honesty is honesty with oneself.

Muchas veces una persona puede sentirse que no puede hacer algo (su resistencia) siente miedo a dar el paso a lo que quiere, suena contradictorio por que dirán si lo quiere va por el, sencillo, pero no el miedo a lo que será paraliza... sin embargo siempre digo un escalón a la vez, a medida que avancemos con consciencia liberándonos de lo que nos ata, tendremos lo que queremos...!
Many times a person can feel that he can not do something (his resistance) feels afraid to take the step to what he wants, it sounds contradictory because they will say if he wants to go for it, simple, but not the fear of what will be paralyzed. ... however, I always say one step at a time, as we move forward with awareness, freeing ourselves from what binds us, we will have what we want ...!

Great post. I so appreciate  the clarification on not resisting resistance. So often we do the opposite of what is needed, because we fight the process that's meant to bless us.

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This kind of enlightenment surely comes from the heart.
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Ah we should all clear our minds... 😥 Enlightenment is a slow process when we live in the city. At least for me. 😅

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One of the best and most important posts I've read on steemit. Great Job! Glad to have someone like you on steemit :-)

it makes sense to worry or pray, but not to do both.

I'd been thinking that resistance represents the conflict that occurs when what you say you want is contradicting what you really want. In a lot of ways, your definition agrees with this. In a specific case, sometimes one's ego-driven demands aka "goals" are really in disagreement with what what someone truly desires -- and, as you point out, the ego-driven demands put an emphasis on proving that one is special and unique (ie, overachiever with the most, the biggest, etc).