![mmexport1526036590171.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdyV2SESH3ZbWJLqEzpP4JdrCDcAhELCLqibX21xsM7h4/mmexport1526036590171.jpg) 两桥,也叫连桥,连襟,是指姊妹的丈夫的合称或互称。而这词的称谓也很形象,两桥还是连桥,都是通向同一个地方,那就是岳父母家。 妻子有一个姐姐和一个哥哥,作为唯一的男孩子,其哥哥继承了父辈创下的家业——两家不算小的书店,所以家境颇为殷实,财大气粗。而妻子与她姐姐就是嫁出去的闺女泼出去的水了,所以只能靠自己努力。 我的两桥大我11岁,毕竟妻子比她姐姐要小8岁了。两桥出生在鲁西南贫困的农村,下面还有四个妹妹,其家庭困境可想而知,我想一定比我小时候还要困难。两桥在农村曾干过赤脚医生,恢复高考后,凭着自己的聪明好学,考上了一所地质大学,从此改变了命运。毕业后分到了泰安的一家地质研究所,后来妻子也随他们来到了泰安工作,也就有了我们的相识。 待我们结婚后,两桥他们调动去了另一个城市的一家电厂工作。不愿安于现状的两桥停薪留职,承包了电厂下面的一家粉煤灰砖厂。 那一年是2003年,也就在这一年,我的人生发生了很大的变化。从原单位辞职以后,我便去了一家国际贸易公司,因为自己年龄大了,况且此前也未从事过外贸,一切都要从新开始,可事情并非短时间内就能学得熟练。自己力不从心,感到无奈之时,也只好一走了之。却道是祸不单行,在那期间岳母却去世了。得知我的境况,岳父执意要将丧事上收到的5000—6000元的礼金交给妻子。我执意不收,岳父大发脾气,如不拿着就要烧掉等等。可这却让舅子哥大为不满,说了让我很伤心的话,我当时差一点落下泪来。毕竟,自己没有了工作,家里又穷,会不会成为岳父一家将来的负担呢? ![mmexport1526036594614.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmcDqYLVp6cokz17KNH9coNmwA8EkMoABgBUwMLoXoF1oJ/mmexport1526036594614.jpg) 返回时去了书店,我们把钱留给了大舅子哥,没有让岳父知道。我又累又乏,心情也跌落到了极点,悲伤之余,又为自己的前景担忧。混的差了,连自己的亲人都要瞧不起。人情冷暖,世态炎凉,又如何看得明白?只是那时我两桥的一句话让我才振作起来——“小吴,长志气!” 两桥同样来自艰苦的农村,自然懂得生存之艰难,更能体会到遭人鄙视的酸楚。 也就是在那一年,我考取了机关事业单位。后来,便贷款买了房子。那时孩子小,工资也低,有一半的工资要还贷款了,所以,生活也很是紧巴。从未吃过苦的妻子自然也少不了与我吵闹,真是贫贱夫妻百事哀啊。大姨子总是让路过我们这里的两桥来我们家里,自然是给我们留一点钱。 有着相似的背景和经历,自然也就能有着共同的话语。看到我的为难之处,两桥曾对我说过“有我吃的就有你们吃的”,不要让我们因贷款而担忧。 两桥也曾去我的家里多次,去看望我的父母。两桥这种关系,说近也不近,说远也不远,有的甚至几乎没有任何往来。可我的两桥却亲如兄弟,在我最困难的时候,给予我鼓励和关切,让我在寒冷中感到浓浓暖意。 ![mmexport1526036585844.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQUVSCNudcJr3q7dhX56tNoA3WaetALu9894Dh95yfnRX/mmexport1526036585844.jpg)
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@bring, 你这么好的文章,我估计要100个比特币才能买了!
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@bring, 伦家就觉得你写得不错嘛~~~ ![img](https://i.imgur.com/SSIPbYK.png) 顺祝每天都大吉大利,赚好多好多的STEEM/SBD哟!嘻嘻...
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人情冷暖,一目了然
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所以,我一直努力,也一直记着在我处于困境之时,别人曾给予我的帮助。
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饮水思源,心怀感恩!
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是啊,人要学会感恩。
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