People are constantly seeking to have experiences that make them feel like they have "done something different." They want to prove to themselves and others that they have "done something important." But, what exactly is the definition of an "experience?" And how do you know when you have had enough of these kinds of experiences?
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Experiences are subjective. You know you have had an experience when you remember something about it long after it has passed. You may think back to a time when you were abused as a child. Now, if you can hear the pain and can recall the details, then you have experienced some kind of abuse. Likewise, if you can put a date to something that happened in your past, then you may have experienced something.

But, an experience isn't like this. Have you ever been in a place where you didn't know there was a room in which you could have felt something? If so, then you have had an encounter. Maybe, a feeling of anxiety accompanied by sweat and other physical sensations. Or maybe you went into a dark room and could not see a way out.

We all have experiences that make us say, "Wow!" But, what does that have to do with your life? Do you go back over the things you did and said in the past to figure out how you could have handled a situation differently? Could you have done something different?

Does your life revolve around a particular goal? Do you want to become a millionaire? Or do you want to start a business that you believe in and work hard at it? Life is supposed to be fun and enjoyable, not a job to do for a paycheck. So, if you are looking for a new career and have a burning desire to make things happen, why not pursue your dreams?

You also need to ask yourself if there are any other things in life that you want to do but can't seem to get started on. This too can be a problem. Often times we set goals but never take the steps needed to reach them. Do you like the idea of traveling? Or, perhaps you would like to teach piano lessons.

Don't just sit around and wait for life to come to you. There are things that you can do right now to help you move forward. This might mean taking a course in something you have always wanted to do, or perhaps starting a nonprofit organization.

We live in a society that has everything to offer, from home builders and construction workers to medical professionals and attorneys. The question you should ask is, "What do I want to experience?" Life is not about what someone else wants for you. It is about what makes you happy and what will allow you to impact the world around you. Why look at life through someone else's eyes? Take control of your own life and your own future today.

There are so many negative influences in our world, we sometimes forget to look inside ourselves. Are you fearful of death? Would you like to accomplish things and have others support you? These are all great questions and it is important that you find out what you are truly capable of doing, and how you feel about your capabilities and talents.

I am often asked if I would like to be a doctor or lawyer, a carpenter or a nurse. The reason I ask this is because each one of these things requires a great deal of work on my part. These are careers that require me to interact with a variety of people, both those I personally know and those I have no idea of. When I work in an office setting, I meet hundreds of people everyday. As an artist, I meet others who are in the same boat as me. Being able to work with others and make a difference in the world is very fulfilling and enjoyable.

A few years ago I decided to give something back to the world. It had taken some time but I felt it was important that I do so now. I have a few projects that need to be done around my home and in the community. I have been invited to be involved with a couple of youth groups. I have decided to do this to help not only myself but also others.
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My next project will be teaching my twin children about their disabilities. I want them to realize that no one can judge them for anything they may have experienced in their life. I want them to see that there is life even after having these special needs. I want them to see that they are loved and are capable of doing great things. I want them to realize that having these abilities does not have to hold them back from living life to the fullest.