They say that divorced people have a bigger chance to divorce again when they marry again. When I say marriage, I use the word marriage to keep it simple, but of course, it also applies to all kinds of long-term cohabitation or relationships. There are statistics to prove this statement. That may be, who am I to say that statistics lie. Both my husbands have written their theses with a lot of statistics. Unreadable theses for me with difficult mathematical formulas on every page. ![IMG_0820.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmS8rBb3cCAPBDU4wfRktSp9fv2SLUD9JS6bozpCSHqYZF/IMG_0820.jpg) I am just a simple historian, but I also use statistics in my work. The computer made it so much easier for historians to use large quantities of data to say something about the life of large numbers of people in a certain region. Famous, for instance, is the work of the French historians Emmanuel Le Roy Ladurie and Fernand Braudel. But enough statistics, because how people respond on average, is not how I react or my friends and relatives in the same position. Almost nobody I know is separated twice. I notice a huge difference in the behavior of both partners in a second marriage. I call it compassion and understanding. ![IMG_2182 (2).JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmbf8p5sChz2mL8yPEHt6Wc1SXfZdqcqTM6DhrNGUBYStS/IMG_2182%20(2).JPG) When you are young you marry a man or a woman because you love him or her. You love almost everything but sometimes there are some (you think: small) things in your partner you do not like. You think: 'I will change that after we are married or after we are living together'. But a lesson you learn in your life is that you cannot change the character of a person. Maybe you can change the way he or she acts a bit, but not his character. I mean, you can teach your partner to put the cap on the tube of toothpaste, but if he or she is naturally sloppy, you can not change it. Of course, this is just a simple example, but there are of course more serious examples, such as a difference of opinion about how much alcohol someone drinks, how many hours he or she works, how money is spent, the way you deal with each other etc. etc. And so you can slowly but steadily grow apart. There don't have to be violent quarrels but the decline has set in. Finally one or both partners decide it's enough and a separation follows. In the second part of this series, I emphasized the importance of not fighting (if possible of course) with your partner when children are involved. Now in the third part, I will explain why (in my opinion and speaking about 'normal' people) a second relationship/marriage can be better than a first. With 'normal' I mean that there are no very serious problems like an addiction or mistreatment etc. And of course only when the first marriage failed to be a success because when you are lucky your first marriage is also your last and you grow old together! When you meet someone new after your divorce you are more cautious and you take the time to really know each other. ![IMG_2555 (2).JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmSk9BExh2AVWsPR2PAcfBtnoh3rUHREv1GbxHgAxbQr78/IMG_2555%20(2).JPG) You both have a life behind and you have learned a lot along the way. So when you decide to live together in one house, you are better prepared. ![IMG_7549 (2).JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmWgzhBWohMQSJiy3x3WQCJ7JyLZrRt2qTDye7TDxME7hV/IMG_7549%20(2).JPG) BUT, more importantly, you have learned an important lesson. You do not want to change the other person anymore, you know it won't work, but you accept his peculiarities and smile when he does something that you would have been very angry about in your first relationship. When your partner does the same, your life together is so much easier. ![IMG_6785.JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmTg3C5WwmQoL4tMX2QY9kk2vetCbZVVDQ4YFTNkiiLzDp/IMG_6785.JPG) You have learned that a loving relationship is a gift and that you have to work hard to keep it that way. It is not a given, you really have to do something for it. No struggle, but harmony Empathy instead of emotion Compassion instead of feeling angry Not always, of course, and not all the time, but very very often! When this happens, as it happened to me, than you are a lucky man or woman. Enjoy your life and be happy! I wish you all a nice day and a happy life. Clio
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Wow! Great words of wisdom here my friend! You said it right, we cannot change someone's character. Accepting how your partner is, make life fun , forget angry mood, and live at your fullest! Loved this wonderful post!
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Yes, you are right, it makes your life so much better! Thank you for the compliment. It took me quite a while to say it just the way it felt. It was difficult to choose the right words, but I'm glad you read and understood it the way I meant it.
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Wow great lessons from reality. Yes love is the another name of god, it is the beauty of life. I am very happy seeing both of you couple are happy. Thanks for sharing the great post, stay blessed and healthy my dear friends.
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I like your saying: Love is the beauty of life!
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Thanks my dear it's my pleasure to have you as my friend.
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Wonderful @clio. This is a wonderful piece which will be of help to alot of people. Probably the statistics that exist about divorces consist of people who did not learn their lessons before entering a second relationship. If majority of them knew of the stuffs you've written here, they'll probably have a better relationship. These issues might look small and simple, but they are like little foxes that spoil the vine. They produce gradual but accumulative effect. Nice piece. Thanks
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You are welcome! I hope that my piece will be useful for some people. I just want them to learn to think! A relationship is not something that you can take for granted and can only have it in your own way.
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Very true. I'll resteem this to help spread this life saver.
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Statistics don't always tell the truth, it's not always practical. For example, According to statistics, my country is out of recession, but yet the prices of stuffs are still as high as they were, and the recession is felt in real life, but that's different from what the stats is saying on paper. A second marriage is an eyes-wide-open experience; you know what kinds of work are involved and say โyesโ anyway. Plus, you endured a worst-case scenario and not just survived, but thrived! A second marriage means youโve let go of the โperfect spouseโ ideal, embraced your imperfections and found the unique โmust havesโ you need in a life partner. Wonderful post
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Thank you for your comment on my post. I especially like the sentence where you speak of letting go of the 'perfect spouse'. That is what it is about. You are not perfect and your partner is not perfect, but together you can have a very satisfying relationship. It's indeed an eyes-wide-open experience. About statistics, it may be that for your country as a whole is out of recession. That doesn't mean that everything is going better or that you feel it's going better because you have more money or the prices aren't that high anymore. It's only on paper. What is your country? I'm living in the Netherlands and partly in France.
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Well said. I thought you knew my country already. I was the one that gave the Indonesian nasi recipe for exyle which you upvoted. Thanks anywaiz for it, although am presently not in Indonesia, I had to make a quick travel for some business proposals and also for study. Am an electronic engineer by training, and we always go for these trainings and workshops to help us aquire more skills and become better at our jobs.
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You two look so happy together! Congratulations! My wife and I have been through so much, but fortunately we WANT to stay together and have worked on our problems and conflicts. 15+ years so far. I can't imagine trying to start over. Take care!
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I think that's fantastic! I would have loved to stay married but it was not to be. You write that you want to stay together, that means you make an effort and you work on your problems and conflicts. That's the way for a long and happy marriage.
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Yes, and both spouses need to be willing and interested to work together. Thx
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Wow!!, mom you are a good writer, reading this am really carried away, am not married but and preparing for that. Thanks so much for sharing, I learn something from does words. The image with your life partner really look great, it show how you both has being have good lovely relationship, and happy for you both and I will like to say happy marriage life, because for you both to manage the relationship till now it a gift, Am really in support of what you said, >loving relationship is a gift and that you have to work hard to keep it that way. Some home don't have the gift, just because they don't walk towards it, it's really good when someone make his relationship perfect, not that the relationship is perfect from the beginning, but they have make it be and it a gift. I wrote a love poem " thinking of you" some hours back, having a good relationship matter a lot. I hope you enjoy your time with mark and Bianca yesterday, exyle has always been kind and caring. I saw on his post, how happy you are when they came around and even prepare meal for you and you had 2 plate if it, it shows that you are speedily recovering, am really happy for that. We really love you our steemit mom, have a pleasant days ahead
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Thank you very much for your comprehensive answer to my story. It's good that you understood that living together means that both partners have to work hard to keep it that way. I wish you a happy life. I'm feeling a lot better thank you. Mark and Bianca made me a lovely meal and I enjoyed their visit very much.
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