RE: Spanking Children is an Unconscious Act of Vengeance by cogliostro

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psychology · @cogliostro · Jul 23 '16

Using a belt on a child is not spanking. It's beating a child with a torture implement.

Discipline is important, use the open hand, whatever. Just if you can avoid torture with implements then maybe your kids will grow up a little less fucked up than the rest of us.

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@sterlinluxan · Jul 23 '16

The research even suggests that using an open hand and swatting can be harmful to children. Check the link I left regarding the evidence. 

Thanks for the comment.

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@cogliostro · Jul 23 '16

$0.27

Common sense wisdom also suggests  "spare the rod, spoil the child". The research has no way of taking this type of long term effect into account, so they always "discover" whatever they wanted to discover.

For example, water can be harmful to children. But they need it to survive just like everyone. Same with discipline. They are not untouchable or little angels all of the time. Think about what message you're sending to the kid by not disciplining them early: "do whatever you want, the world will never lay a finger on you"? Why would you lie to your kid like that, give them totally false expectations?

So I think it's not such a black and white thing as a lot of these studies are trying to paint it to be.

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@piedpiper · Jul 24 '16

$1.03

It *is* black and white. Hitting someone without their consent is a violation of the nonaggression axiom. It violates the most fundamental right of self-ownership. They're sentient individuals, not their parents' property.

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@tee-em · Jul 26 '16

Spare the rod is more accurately translated to &quot;shepherd's hook&quot; meaning an unguided, not beaten, sheep will stray from the flock.

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