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I was out walking with my friend recently (that’s what middle-aged suburbeople do — we walk around the school ; it makes us feel like we are less lazy and it gets us away from the boredom in the hostel so we can talk grown up) and she made this statement in a perfectly innocent way:

“It’s really hard to judge people.”

She said this to “me!” I start laughing. Then she realized what she said and started laughing, too.

It’s actually really, really easy to judge people! I’m in HR and Recruiting, and I’ve made a career out of judging people.

Judging people with little real information

A guy comes in with a tattoo on their face and immediately we think – prison, drugs, poor decision-making, etc. We instantly judge. It’s not that face-tattoo guy can’t surprise us and be engaging and brilliant, but before we even get to that point, we judge.![IMG_20180203_05190

I know, I know, you don’t judge, it’s just me — sorry for lumping you in with “me!”

However, what my friend was saying was correct. It’s really hard to judge someone based on how little we actually know them.![IMG_20180203_051810.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmZQpZHK3E8PTGEm4aEmZRcAvLn3RBE8SRHpvttMBzY3Yr/IMG_20180203_051810.jpg)

People judge me all the time on my dressing,and makeups. I actually met a girl recently at a mall who said she knew me in school, used to see the way i dressed that sge wanna make friends with me because am a jovial personbut stopped because of my dressing. We got to spend some time talking and she said she said am a very nice person, that she had judged me too harshly, and is  because of what i wore to welcome party held by NESA

I told her she was actually correct; 
Nobody is perfect![IMG_20180203_051748.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmQfFz8P571UhHCL4N4hFtg3vEUZ5sREMRphTmqr2Gw1Ks/IMG_20180203_051748.jpg)image credit (www.google.com)

If you can’t see beyond my dressing, we probably won’t be friends. I’m not the “the slay queen u think i am.” If you judge me as that, you’re missing out on some cool stuff and ideas i i gave to my friends.

As a born again christain and a worker, if you can’t see beyond someone’s errors you’re woefully inept at your spiritual lie. We all have “opportunities,” but apparently if you’re a candidate, you don’t. You have to be perfect.