[미국 사는 이야기] 방귀 뀐 놈이 성낸다, defensive 와 비슷할까? by floridasnail

hive-101145 · @floridasnail · Mar 5 '21

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[미국 사는 이야기] 방귀 뀐 놈이 성낸다, defensive 와 비슷할까?

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가장 황당한 경우 중 하나는 '방귀 뀐 놈이 성낸다'는 말처럼 잘못한 사람이 오히려 화를 내는 경우입니다. 
이와는 조금 다른 경우이기는 하지만 느낌적 느낌으로 'defensive' 라는 단어를 사용하고는 합니다.
단편적으로는 '방어적인' 이란 뜻이지만, 질문을 받거나 지적을 받았을 때 뭔가 자신없는 변명을 하거나 본인의 탓이 아니라는 것만 강조한다는 느낌의 뜻이 있습니다.

He /She is so defensive.
일이 왜 이렇게 되었는지를 파악하기 위해 질문을 할 경우, 객관적으로 사실을 서술하고 본인의 잘못이 있을 때는 사과하고 수정하는 사람이 있는가 하면, 어떤 사람은 '내가 한 게 아니다'라는 것만을 주장하기 위해 오히려 공격적인 자세를 취하는 사람이 있습니다.
제 개인적으로는 방귀 뀐 놈이 성낸다라는 속담이 비슷하지 않나 싶습니다.
이런 경우들을 보면 대부분 자신감에서 나오는 마음의 여유가 없어서인 것 같습니다.
아니면 나는 실수를 하지 않는다는 쓸데없는 자만심에서 오는 것일까요?

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