大姨夫 Depressed man | 月旦评 by julian2013

steempress · @julian2013 · Aug 13 '18 (edited)

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大姨夫 Depressed man | 月旦评

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成年之后，经常会被自己突如其来的负罪感搞得如芒在背，如鲠在喉。

单身的时候，若是去到某处美景，或是吃到某种美味，便不由得想起父母，想到他们还没有过类似的体验，顿时兴致大减，索然无味矣。

刚结婚时，恨不得整天和爱人绑在一起，出双入对，希望世间所有的美好，都要和她一同经历。过着过着，总有一种隐隐的忧思，似乎在心底某个角落生出一个尖角，像是那顽皮小猫的爪子，忽而翻出扎你两下，忽而隐入脚垫不见踪影。

突然会有一天，那种熟悉的感觉突然涌上心头，来得那么猝不及防，无处可逃。虽说自己的小家只是过着平凡的生活，但那和父母的日子相比，仍有云泥之别。

从此以后，这种感觉便如同一个没心没肺的孤魂找到了自己的坟，经常不告而归，且来如迅雷，去如抽丝。**小影心头葬，慢慢的，似乎有了规律，成了大姨夫。**

只是，这种事情永远无法给父母说。他们唯一的回答将会是：“只要你们过得好，我们就很开心了”。

教科书上说，人和动物最主要的区别是人会使用工具。这其实是从物质层面来说明的。从非物质层面来看呢？我想人和动物最大的区别应该是：人是有精神追求的动物。

传宗接代是动物的本能，而人类会超越本能。大部分的父母应该并不满足子女走自己的老路只是简单地活着，他们希望自己的孩子一代更比一代强。有时候为了子女的幸福，宁愿牺牲自己。

从这个角度来看，如果子女没有父辈们过得好，是子女的失败，是为人子女的没能有够尽自己的本分，反而使得父母们将更加担心，也就无所谓更幸福了。

怎么说呢？如果真的是那么在乎父母们的感受，治疗大姨夫似乎只有一个方法：在人生的路上，朝着“优秀”狂奔，间或休息时，常回家看看。

**常回家看看,回家看看~~**

**哪怕帮妈妈刷刷筷子洗洗碗……**

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@cnbuddy · Aug 12 '18

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@sunai · Aug 12 '18

若能一直守着父亲母亲，真是好幸福。

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@minnowsupport · Aug 12 '18

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@slientstorm · Aug 12 '18

有大姨夫，就肯定有大姨妈

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

大姨妈留给你流

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@tanlikming · Aug 12 '18

我的缘份比较深，跟父母亲一辈子都黏在一起，没分开过。
在世俗眼中，算是个没出息吧

不过没关系的。自己半辈子已经快接近了。

许多人还不是一样劳劳碌碌，灯红酒绿，
也不见得有多开心。

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

能够住在一起是一种幸福

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@tanlikming · Aug 12 '18

一起吃苦的幸福

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@zero12345 · Aug 12 '18

有點meng圈

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

不要meng，要man一点

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@davidke20 · Aug 12 '18

这读着就是一把鼻涕一把泪。

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

拉仔的大姨夫来了，准备点啥啥巾吧

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@davidke20 · Aug 12 '18

来了。啪啪啪啪……咦。音效弄错了

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@dancingapple · Aug 12 '18

要是我黏着我妈，她会嫌我烦😂同学朋友节目比我的还多。

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

苹果妈（就是苹果树喽）这样的父母最好，有自己的乐趣，又独立~

我父母够独立，但乐趣不多……

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@zy-sb · Aug 12 '18

我保留不同意见
父母与子女的缘份
是互相需要互相迁就互相牵挂
除了爱的大前提
还有孝顺与做自己
还有代沟对人对事的不同看法
一定要相互麻烦才好
有纠结才求同存异
关于优秀的标准的不同看法

父母
一求子女平安健康
二求子女家庭幸福
其他，都是锦上添花了

子女
一求父母平安健康
二求父母有自己的圈子生活和爱好
一般父母做到第二点的不多

但，社会在进步
整体上来说
一代父母会比一代父母强

始终认为对于家庭成员
最重要的是爱的陪伴

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

似乎挺多父母和子女之间缘分不够

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@zy-sb · Aug 12 '18

嗯，毕竟有各种因素的影响
觉知，改变，迈出自己一步
岂能尽如人意
但求无愧于心

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@annepink · Aug 12 '18

√常回家看看  我是😊

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

唉，说起来容易做起来很难的……

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@changxiu · Aug 12 '18

上午十一点看完的，没来得及评论，现在补上
想说，文字真棒！把那种期待与自责的纠结传神的表达明确
然而却心疼你的这种不定期重情绪，想劝说一句：
我们也已为人父母，也真切的体会了生养不易，更收获了养育的快乐。以父母的角度去看小儿女，他们的幸福快乐就是我们最大的宽慰，何尝希求过回馈…我们的父母，想来更是如此
真心快乐，就好

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@julian2013 · Aug 12 '18

我发现大姨夫成了很多事情的引子，甚至引导了未来的路

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