My decline and rebirth. Part 1 by lifeisawesome

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My decline and rebirth. Part 1
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<p>Hi all. This story is going to be in segments – I’m undecided if it will be two of three parts – but it will be positive at the end. Promise! :)</p>
<p><strong>My Decline and Rebirth</strong></p>
<p>I was just a young man when I first went to college. Truth is I really didn’t want to be there; I was just going because it kept me off the streets. And I was one for roaming the streets. I had already picked up a few strays in my travels, my Mum had to move to get me away from that trouble. She hated it, I was always a good kid.</p>
<p>I was a good kid trapped in a sea of despair. You see, when I grew up I was a straight A student, in the right social circles and never creating an ounce of trouble outside or inside school. But all it takes is to fall into a bad crowd, and that can be game over. That’s when you can only watch as the beautiful young prince is turned into a nasty, stinky troll by the other trolls.</p>
<p>I remember having a friend, my best friend at the time, his mum couldn’t give a shit what time he came in at. He could stay out until 5am for all she cared, and it never seemed to worry her when he was running from the police. I always thought I wanted a Mum like that, but now I look back and think he lacked the most important thing in life as a kid,</p>
<p><img src="https://s21.postimg.org/l2stiavuv/Love.jpg" width="1185" height="800"/></p>
<p>Love.</p>
<p>As a teenager when you walk down the path of alcohol and drugs there’s very little escaping, few do, especially when parents like my best friends Mum couldn’t care less. We used to drink vodka and punch holes in his wall, but no-one gave a shit. It was a world without borders.</p>
<p>I always remember the ‘night of the smoke’ like it was yesterday, it’s what I call it, my introduction to cannabis, and the profound effect it had on me. It’s a wonder why I still engaged with it, perhaps because it was the forbidden fruit. I don’t know.</p>
<p><strong>Night of the smoke</strong></p>
<p>It was a beautiful summers evening, the skies were luminous red which added a lovely pink fluffiness to every cloud that slowly trundled by. The wind was slow and warm, a perfect addition to the dropping temperatures of the evening. We had just finished our work in the fields, and eager to spend our takings we burst out of the workers van and sped back to our homes to get changed and have dinner. The summer holidays were always the best.</p>
<p><img src="https://s10.postimg.org/k97wj9dix/holiday_861840_960_720.jpg" width="960" height="635"/></p>
<p>But this was no normal night, my friend and I had talked at length about me ‘getting high’ for the first time. I was always a good kid. I always wanted to put my best foot forward, and this wasn’t a good thing in my current social circle. The worse a person you were, the more revered and awesome you were. You had to do bad stuff to get credibility points in the neighbourhood. So I wanted to be bad. I wanted to fit in. To be cool for a change.</p>
<p>So tonight was the night. Tonight I was going to be awesome and bad both at the same time. &nbsp;And it was strange but all the other kids seemed to like the idea of me sparking up a massive joint. I didn’t know why. It seemed appealing to them as they giggled amongst themselves. I didn’t know whether to be cautious or proud. I was a very cautious lad, but sometimes my wanting to fit in would overrule my aversion to risk.</p>
<p>There was always ‘that spot’ that was well known as a drug den at night and locals would mostly avoid and spin tails of drug taking to exaggerated proportions. Nevertheless it’s where we all went to avoid hassle and take our demon seed in peace. Some would drop LSD, others would end up snorting lines, and the smaller fish like me, you’d see smoking a joint. But today was to be marked.</p>
<p><img src="https://s14.postimg.org/nfd4zic69/7293445816_fa2c787ae3_b.jpg" width="1024" height="683"/></p>
<p>Attribution: https://www.flickr.com/photos/westmidlandspolice/7293445816</p>
<p>Unknown to me it was funny to them to see the good kid get ‘off his tits on illegal shit’ so I was in for more than I bargained for. There was no light introduction, only a massive jump into the deep end for me. I was unaware of what I was doing, I hadn’t done it before, so for me it was chaotic.</p>
<p>They hot knifed quarter of my gear for me. Truth is I only bought and eighth, and it wasn’t much but there was no break in between, just constant smoke to lung from cannabis resin. It burned profusely, I could only describe it as constantly inhaling and exhaling hot, sweet smoke, that had a sticky feeling on my lungs. It lay heavy as I coughed and spluttered and gagged to finish the lot.</p>
<p>“Is that the way?”</p>
<p>I asked my friends after I had just hot knifed quarter of an eighth on my first time ever. I could see that they were laughing and pointing at me; there was a mixture of sheer enjoyment and also mockery in their eyes. They thought it was hilarious; something I actually never lived down for years to come.</p>
<p>I’d love to say that everything was fine and nothing happened after that but I would be wrong. It wasn’t long until I could feel as if I wasn’t there. It was a strange feeling, everything went completely numb. I couldn’t feel it, and that was just the start. I was relaxed at first; their laughing hadn’t bothered me too much.</p>
<p>It wasn’t until I realised how much everyone else was hot knifing in comparison to what I was, the difference was huge. My lot was loads compared to theirs. I could feel panic set in; that nauseating freezing feeling in the testicle area when I’m scared. I felt petrified.</p>
<p><img src="https://s14.postimg.org/tt7wzlbfl/man_70603_960_720.jpg" width="960" height="560"/></p>
<p>And then I could feel the red hot blood rush to my head, I couldn’t just feel it I could hear it in its gushy raw panic. The feeling was fight or flight. Truth be told I wanted to stab every last one of them, but I ran. I just left my shit and ran as fast as my little legs could carry me.</p>
<p>I managed to get back to the house before my legs gave way and in bed before it felt like every organ was shutting down, I was in a horrific state of panic, I could barely move, and I was scared, and I felt alone. Mum was away for the night so I was lucky, or she’d have panicked too. I eventually slept.</p>
<p>The following day I woke up fine, no scars, no nothing. But I was angry; I wanted to kill my friends for doing such a thing, but I couldn’t, they all had brothers older and harder and built better than they were. It was a losing game. I swallowed my pride.</p>
<p>I look back at that event and I feel bad that I took so many attempts to try and be ‘in their gang’ until I eventually gave up and owned my position as the outsider. My family cared about me, I was a good boy, and this is what it will always be no matter what I did. If that happened to me now I’d have disowned them. No friend leaves another in such a vulnerable state, or even creates a scenario when a friend is placed in such a vulnerable state.</p>
<p><img src="https://s9.postimg.org/jhm5bo8hr/clasped_hands_541849_960_720.jpg" width="900" height="720"/></p>
<p>In the end it was my Mum who had enough. She couldn’t see me stripped of my dignity anymore, so Mum did the best that she could. We moved. And that was it after that. I started fresh with new friends and different people. But sometimes the nastiness can lurk behind even when I leave certain circles. It wasn’t so easy to claw my way out of some of the bad habits I had picked up since being with those people. I was drinking at least a half bottle of vodka per day by then. And it was hard to stop. And it showed.</p>
<p>I had joined college as a way to escape the troubles of life, to keep me off the streets. And it did, to an extent.</p>
<p><strong>Part 2 tomorrow</strong></p>
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@pjo ·
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Things and feelings you've experienced is well know to me, especially when you are so angry that you think you can do anything...And I also had some troubles in the streets who made me stay at home in evenings. I really appreciate this story! Keep it up!
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@lifeisawesome · 
I will, part two tomorrow, much more to come :)
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@pjo · 
Good to hear!
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@jrcornel ·
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Wow... That had to take its toll on your body physically...
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@lifeisawesome · 
It did! But it's been a good 18 years since I touched that stuff - so I'm back to normal :)
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@giantbear · 
@lifeisawesome I also went off my rocker at one stage, but am also back to normal now.  I would love to be part of this project.  Project-positivity is awesome.
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@macksby · 
I must say, I grew in a place too, where you were judged by your bad deeds. The bigger and badder, the cooler you were... Looking back on it now, I can see it was my Moms guidance, toughness and love that saw me through, unlike many who would eventually wind up in jail, rehab, and even dead. Im glad you made @lifeisawesome and Im glad you had a Mom that cared.
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@lifeisawesome · 
Oh believe me, I am too! Thanks man, that's lovely for you to say so
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@quinneaker · 
Trials and tribulations are an important part of life.
While maybe not enjoyable it is these kind of experiences that shape our future.
The great thing about something bad is now you know it's bad and can try other things and hopefully find good.
When living consciously every day improves even when there are less than ideal experiences.
Thanks for sharing~*~
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@positivity · 
No problem - I expect we all have some baggage down the line somewhere :)
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@allgoodthings · 
Looking forward to the rest!  I had similar feelings where I wished I had parents that didn't give a shit because I just wanted to be a little shit at the time.  Of course, I later on realized how important it is to have stable family love and support.  Thanks for sharing!
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@lifeisawesome · 
Yep. It goes a long, long way, friend. :)
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@allgoodthings · 
True words my brother, bless amigo!
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@calaber24p · (edited)
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Fantastic read lifeisawesome,  those dicks were never your friends. I could not imagine being in that situation. I reblogged this for you.
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@lifeisawesome · 
Thank you, thank you! In the midst of writing my next instalment :)
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