问题来了 by liumei

hive-180932 · @liumei · Jun 18 '20 (edited)

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问题来了

早上妮子讲，包括她，全班有近2/3的同学被老师损过，更甚一个同学被老师贬损：连狗都不如。老师只对几个学习好的同学好。
老师做法确实欠妥，我叮嘱要是老师那样说她一定回来告诉我，找老师理论。

我又讲，有些人和事情是不能改变的，我不能阻止老师改变说话方式，但换一个角度，我们怎样能成为被老师喜欢的人，不被贬损——只有成为老师眼中的好学生才行。那成为好学生这个事，对谁都是有利的，只是需要付出努力。
这个不改变别人只改变自己的道理在哪里都通用，

 >这个世界不会理回你的自尊，这世界会认为你要先取得成就才有资格感觉自我良好

早上跟妮子说的时候还是频频点头答应，感觉她充满了力量，要给自己争口气。

傍晚回来就像泄了气的皮球，明天要考数学和英语，妮子回家后还是和往常一样不紧不慢，完全没有紧张感 。

我不知道该怎么办了！ 

开头写了老师的问题，或许她的态度影响了孩子的学习，反正现在妮子说不喜欢老师。
作为家长，我觉得我该做点什么，怎么做能改变一下现状，思考中…… 

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