Earn the Trust of Your Partner by lordling

life · @lordling · May 9 '21

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Earn the Trust of Your Partner

No relationship is ever easy, but if both partners can be open and honest with each other they can learn to earn the trust each other needs. Trust in relationships means more than having the sexiest body or the best looking personality. It also means respecting the other person's individuality, their dreams and desires, their opinions and their background. Both partners must learn to trust each other before anything else. Here are some simple ways to earn the trust of your partner.
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Be there for your partner when they need you. Your partner will miss you more if you stay out of their life for a bit. Just being there when they call or send a message is very important. Just being there to listen when they need something, is another great way to earn their trust. When they feel you really care about them, they will want to spend more time with you.

Do not bring drama into the relationship. Just being there is not the same as trust. If you bring drama into the relationship you will lose the trust of your partner faster than ice skating on ice. Just stay calm and cool when you disagree with your partner and let the arguing go away on its own.

You need to have some self respect. Even though it may be difficult for you to do, you need to treat yourself and your partner with respect. Remember that everyone makes mistakes and we all make them when we are human.

Do not bring sex into the relationship. Sex is wonderful, but it should never be the main focus of the relationship. People need to have their own space to get away from other things. So don't bring sex into the relationship, unless you two are ready to take risks and have some fun.

Don't try to force the relationship to work. You might think that if you ask your partner to trust you, they will just think of you as their brother and you will become their new best friend. Trust is earned not given. You won't win your trust instantly. You have to show it over time.

Learn how to listen to what your partner has to say. The biggest thing that can destroy trust in a relationship is when one person starts taking over the other. You have to learn to hear what your partner has to say. If you want to earn the trust start by letting your partner speak. Don't interrupt them or talk right away about something else.

Don't use your sexuality as a weapon. We are all created equal and we all know that sexual tension doesn't lead to anything. It can actually ruin your chances for trust. If you have been used to having sexual contact with your partner then you must unlearn what you have been doing. Remember that sex is great but it shouldn't be the main reason why you have broken the relationship.

You need to be there for each other. Trust is not earned by having someone else to depend on. You must show your partner that you can live without them. If you depend on them you will end up being depressed and this is the number one obstacle that is preventing you from earning the trust of your partner. Your partner will slowly start to doubt your relationship and your faith in yourself.

To earn the trust you need to do a lot of listening. Even if your partner is the one who is pushing for the relationship to progress, you still have to listen. Don't agree to everything that they say right away. You need to take time and listen to what they have to say before you agree with them.

You must be mature enough to handle your feelings. Anger and jealousy can also cause you to break the trust in your relationship. If you feel that you are losing your temper, you must calm down in a hurry. Once you calm down, you will know that you have to stay calm yourself. You will also realise that anger is not going to help you solve the problem.
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To earn the trust of your partner all you have to do is to make sure that you always give them your full attention. You must never nag your partner because this can push them away. Remember that you have to earn the trust of your partner in order to stay happy. If you are able to do these things then you will never have to wonder what it takes to earn trust from your partner.

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