컨트롤 프릭 by lucky2

hive-101145 · @lucky2 · Aug 31 '21

$87.84

컨트롤 프릭

오늘 새로 배운 단어이다.

컨트롤 프릭(control freak)은 통제자로 해석할수 있다.
모든 상황이 자신의 통제하에 있어야 하고 아닐때는 짜증을 내거나 상대를 비난하는 특징을 가진다.
자신의 기준, 원칙에 주변 사람이나 연인이 그대로 따라주지 않을 경우 강박적으로 상대를 비난하거나 행동을 폄하하는 사람들의 행동을 말한다.

자기애성 인격장애와 비슷한 특징을 보이는데 자신의 실수는 타인이나 환경에 의해 방해받았다고 변명하고 남의 노력에 의한 결과는 자신이 했으면 더 잘 해결했을거라며 인정하지 않는다.

컨트롤 프릭의 대표적인 예로 독단적인 상사,지나치게 보수적인 부모, 구속하는 애인등을 꼽을수 있다. 



컨트롤 프릭에게서 벗어나는 법은 전문가를 찾아가서 상담을 받고 그 사람 이외 다른 일을 만드는 것이다. 모든 것을 의존하면 안되고 그 사람 없이도 혼자 할수 있는 취미와 활동을 만드는 것이 중요하다.

제일 중요한 것은 내가 잘못된 것이 아니라 그가  잘못 되었음을 인정하는 것이다.

(애인이 컨트롤 프릭이라면 빨리 도망치길...)

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