### Most often people have asked  *"Can you marry or date someone you met on social media"?*
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#### And this morning I can't help but to address some issue about this social media of a thing. Now listen, It is not the location that matters but the allocation..

Let's start by defining social media. 
## WHAT IS SOCIAL MEDIA? 
>Social media is a computer-based technology that facilitates the sharing of ideas and information and the building of virtual networks and communities. By design, social media is internet based and offers users easy electronic communication of personal information and other content, such as videos and photos. Users engage with social media via computer, tablet or smartphone via web-based software or web application, often utilizing it for messaging.
Social media originated as a tool that people used to interact with friends and family but was later adopted by businesses that wanted to take advantage of a popular new communication method to reach out to customers. The power of social media is the ability to connect and share information with anyone on Earth (or multitudes of people) as long as they also use social media.
[REFERENCE](https://www.investopedia.com/terms/s/social-media.asp)


<h3>The social media is made up of different kinds of humble beings.

- Sex seekers.
- Heartbreakers.
- Players.
- Pretenders.
- Fun seekers.
- Love seekers.</h3>

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Dear young once, There is nothing wrong to meet someone on social media but before you give your heart, you must photocopy your heart and feelings, keep The original one at home then you are free to play with the photocopy.

## HOW TO AVOID HEARTBREAK
<h4> 
- You MUST know the person OUTSIDE SOCIAL MEDIA.
- Do not talk about marriage until you meet in person.
- Sending NUDE is a NO! It doesn't guarantee intimacy.
- Don't be deceive, must singles on social media, are married outside social media.
Therefore, investigate his/ her status before you fall in love. 
- Involve a counsellor, if there is issue of divorce before you fall in love.
- Meeting in a Hotel room is against good intention think of somewhere else e.g recreation center or eatery. 
- Don't go to meet anybody's parents because you met on social media allow him or her to come back first seat down have one on one discussion with him/her.
- Be mindful of the gifts and money you receive, it may be use against you in future. And try as much as you can to say NO! 
- You may meet on social media but do not date on social media, outside will expose a lot.
- Understand today, that you're not dating, if you haven't met in person.
No matter how long you have been talking.
- Making Video calls , doesn't make intention real. Some is to satisfy lust or to cure loneliness. 
- Be Mindful of promises, it can keep you stagnate. E.g some may come with the promise of I will marry you or I will do this or that please be mindful. 
-  90% of lives on social media is on packaging.
Don't waste your time on " I love you baby". Think about yourself and your future 
- When you expose your body on social media, you attract fun and sex seekers..
And lastly 
- All of us must not find our soulmate here.
  Don't allow people to deceive and use you.</h4>

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[SOCIAL MEDIA](https://pixabay.com/en/icon-set-social-media-contact-1142000/)
If you have any other trap to avoid in other to help our younger once out they please do well to drop you comment below 

*Be smart like a snake but calm like a dove.
By their fruits ye shall know them.* 
         IF YOU KNOW YOU KNOW 
I am your relationship adviser  @luckyspark