自我反省 by min520

hive-193186 · @min520 · May 13 '21

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自我反省

https://newappaz.oss-accelerate.aliyuncs.com/wherein_images/post/20210513/f1d4e07461634cc0b91f0ac76f0b6e34.jpg



自我反省
最近成都49中坠楼事件引发可全国轰动，四川日报、人民日报，央视新闻也十分关注，今天早上看到官方公布的事件发生详情，看完之后，惋惜的同时，我也想入了思考。
  现在的青少年心理问题越来越突出，从表面看上去孩子性格很开朗，和家长有说有笑，懂事有礼貌，是父母的骄傲。可是有些孩子会把另一面的自己隐藏起来，因为他们觉得这是自己脆弱的一面，不愿给父母或其他人看到。在青春期得不到有效的心理沟通，所以长期得不到解脱，更难走不出阴暗。
当父母的还是要多与孩子进行有效的心理沟通，不要给娃娃太大的学习压力，读书不是唯一出路。
现在整个社会氛围其实很不好，无论是教育机构还是学校或者家长，总说从小就要赢在起跑线上，要学这学，读书不比上班轻松，想想我高中的时候，真的很累很累，总想逃避！
希望所有父母不要把自己的意愿强加在孩子身上吧！
这束花是今天公司新插的，好看，希望给你们带来好心情！

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@littlesun19 · May 13 '21

读书压力好大，特别高中时候想想好可怕!shop

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@min520 · May 13 '21

是的，来自自己的压力就够累了

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@teamcn-shop · May 13 '21

你好鸭，min520!

@littlesun19给您叫了一份外卖！

**小浣熊豌豆脆** <br> ![](https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmQN9CgQooc6aG99PQGbypHzGdd1dgWi44nNiCt5knGjak)

吃饱了吗？跟我猜拳吧！ **石头，剪刀，布～**

如果您对我的服务满意，请不要吝啬您的点赞～

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@min520 · May 13 '21

剪刀

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@teamcn-shop · May 13 '21

https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5H1CgvU1VD8/WoGwGhtQe6I/AAAAAAATXJU/KY0eCFjyWT02REouDSyRz-o2Pf-Q0OEHwCLcBGAs/s1600/AW785125_21.gif 
 It’s a tie! 平局！想不到你也出鸡爪！

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@andy-66 · May 13 '21

目前大部分家长是强压孩子，有时候也是不得已而为之

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@min520 · May 13 '21

社会大环境就是如此，家长也是焦虑，所以都应该反思。

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@hongguang · May 13 '21

现在有很多孩子的自尊心太强

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@min520 · May 13 '21

自尊心强，受不得挫折打击，这也是从小没有重视的方面

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@love520 · May 13 '21

现在很怕看到这种新闻，心痛

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@min520 · May 13 '21

是的，特别心疼

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@wherein · May 15 '21

This post has been rewarded by the Steem Community Curation Project #wherein 

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