 礼数二字几乎充斥在我们生活的每个点滴之间，饭桌上要讲礼数、职场要讲礼数，结婚的礼数更是花样繁多、数不胜数。 全国各地有着不同的结婚礼数，当地的人们对待这些礼数非常严谨，我们这边也有一些礼数，而且人们都有着根深蒂固的礼数意识。 我们这边虽然有，但是并不是那种很特别和罕见的礼数，大多还是比较常见的，比如彩礼、三金五金、嫁妆等。 以前我一直觉得礼数并不是百分百要遵循和讲究，但是随着年龄的增长见到身边越来越多的人谈婚论嫁，才发现礼数在两个家庭之间非常重要。 重要到那种地步呢，有的情侣甚至在谈婚论嫁即将“扯证”的时候会因为彩礼没谈好、结婚的物质条件没谈好而分手。 其实这样的情况真的还不少，大部分时候其实也不是年轻人的主观意见，而是父母会在其中左右，有时候父母的建议和意见也是在情理之中的，这就会让年轻人意识到好像结婚并不是只需要喜欢就可以了。 这么想的话，其实礼数也不完全是不好的事情，有的情况还是可以检验两个人的情感是否坚定。
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