<center>![5F2AA58C-3900-4A48-9915-7A04FA0F4BB1.png](https://images.hive.blog/DQmXVytQa3J4sE3XkxnGuUkumvPazsBxmRp8UE1u9YmFkL5/5F2AA58C-3900-4A48-9915-7A04FA0F4BB1.png)</center> <a href="https://pixabay.com/zh/vectors/boy-child-comic-characters-dad-1300136/">Source</a> 自从当了爸爸,我发现自己有一种些许矛盾的心情,如果看到孩子调皮哭闹,总是忍不住假装凶两句,但每次很想女儿的时候又很讨厌自己为什么要凶她。 作为孩子的视角,可能她不会知道父母什么时候是真的批评,什么时候是假的凶,所以孩子的感受就会很直接,被凶了心中就会委屈难过,有时候父母会因为其他的事情加重对孩子的训斥。 我从小是被打骂长大的,但也不是那种暴力的打骂,也没有造成心理影响。但我无法否认小时候真的很讨厌我爸打我,而且我明显感觉到有时候对我凶的程度多少是有其他因素的,并不完全是因为我的顽皮。 以前我不理解,但现在我明白了,这种情况其实挺普遍,也没什么奇怪的。每个为人父母者,都是从不懂到懂,二十几岁的人说白了也是刚刚从孩子迈向大人的阶段,所以在教育方式和方法上走弯路也是在所难免的。 比如我妈从小就喜欢给我说家庭经济紧张,让我懂事点节约点,这导致我从小学开始就很少和同学们一起出去玩,因为出去玩就会消费,别人邀请我几次也就不再邀请了,因为他们知道我总是拒绝。 别人可以玩的、尝试的我都不曾想过,在一定程度上限制了我,可能这就是为什么初中的时候我总是不自信,好在高中时期我跳出了这种心理怪圈。 前两年我甚至很自信肯定能做个好爸爸,用好的教育方式对待孩子,可现在我真的感觉自信过头了,在教育孩子方面我也会踩雷也会犯错,我发现这不单是我教育孩子的过程,也是自我教育的过程。 很多人会因为自己有时候忍不住过度凶孩子而感到自责,但所有人都是第一次当父母,当然会犯一些错,花时间讨厌自己还不如多与孩子沟通,因为很多亲子矛盾都是源自于缺乏沟通。
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jinghua | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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fortune-master | 0 | 5,791,273,179 | 100% | ||
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floatinglin | 0 | 3,426,046,233 | 100% | ||
mrspointm | 0 | 161,532,047,586 | 100% | ||
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moochain.net | 0 | 97,223,975 | 58% | ||
lemool | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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liebin | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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younggle | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
dinggle | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
chiomna | 0 | 0 | -10% | ||
moocer | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
steem-zh | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
coursechain | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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imooc | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
steem.buzz | 0 | 0 | 47.92% | ||
lovequeen | 0 | 17,703,603,324 | 100% | ||
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starchain | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
steemzh | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
openbazzar | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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steemipfs | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
hive-224466 | 0 | 0 | 58% | ||
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嗯,人非圣贤,孰能无过,点先生说得好,拍拍!
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做父母都是学习的过程。拍拍拍
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