「生活」如果你忽然发现你的朋友不适合你怎么办 by mrspointm

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「生活」如果你忽然发现你的朋友不适合你怎么办
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一个人从小学到大学通常会结识几群朋友，这些人多半是来自学校里的同班同学，你们因为缘分聚在一起，可能会在这个过程中遇见一生的挚友。

然而也有另外两种情况，一种是原本友情深厚，但随着时间、地域、生活环境的变化而变得大不如前，这种朋友只能算作生命中的过客，彼此彼此而已。

还有另一种，这类朋友从会在你走出校园后还与你密切联系，她总是告诉你生活、工作中的琐碎事情，但问题就在于，我们会在对方滔滔不绝中感觉这个人已经不是从前自己认识的朋友。

面对工作、感情、生活压力，人们的改变是正常的，从单纯变到处心积虑，从专一变到随心所欲，你们的价值观已经有很大的偏离，你甚至试过想要纠正对方的错误思想和行为，但是换来的可能是朋友的质疑。

其实这时候可以选择慢慢淡化和对方的关系，因为你明确地意识到你们不再适合做朋友，因为我一直认同：支撑一对挚友的并不是表面的兴趣爱好、吃喝玩乐，而是相近的思想观念。

因此，在你尽力帮助朋友摒弃一些不好的东西后，如果还是无法改变实际问题，那么你更应该做的是思考一下这个人是否还适合与你做朋友，毕竟身边的朋友可能会影响你一生。
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@mrspointm · 
结果有些就真的没来往了
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@goodreader · 
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@goodreader · 
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@mrspointm · 
一会就去给你拍拍手
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@wilhb81 · 
点点太太说到重点－我也是没有刻意去维持，有缘相聚，无缘离去，拍拍！
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@mrspointm · 
最后留下的可能很少，但确实是很懂你的朋友😜
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@cnbuddy · 
你那里天气如何？想一展歌喉吗？好声音@cn-voice欢迎你～假如我的留言打扰到你，请回复“取消”。
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@cnbuddy · 
吃了吗？这是哪里？你是谁？我为什么会来这边？你不要给我点赞不要点赞，哈哈哈哈哈哈。感谢支持。
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