People are very quick to make judgmental statements whenever there is a little downtime in other people’s lives. Social media is even making things amplified the more, just a little down time in business or life in general and almost every blog is talking about it which makes me wonder how these popular celebrities get to keep their sanity most of the time.
Now, listen to me and listen well, everyone at a certain point in their lives experience downtimes so your own experience of unfortunate circumstance should not make you feel that all hope is lost completely because you are not alone in the boat. Bad news are easy to get spread very fast and the moment something bad is happening to someone, everyone wants to talk about it, everyone wants to be a part of the journey and everyone wants to make it obvious that they know something about how well this successful person has failed but you know what Darling, there is something in you that is peculiar to you and the fact that you are in a deep mess right now does not mean you will not be able to find your way to the top again.
During that period of extreme storm and difficulty, irrespective of how tough it gets you need to keep your mind stabilized on the positive side of the entire situation. I am definitely sure that it will be difficult to do this but trust me when I say that having a positive vibe has a great tendency to illuminate your life during the dark season.
The intimidation behind the possibility of having something go wrong all the time is the reason why millions of people never get out of the shadow. Yeah, I understand the fact that you tried once and it just did not work out the way you would have loved it too but mehn that should not prevent you from trying. The fact that you failed at some point in your life should not be a limiting factor towards your success and aspirations, listen to me real good, you just experienced the same thing that other successful people experienced as well.
It is necessary for you to break free from those life breaking factors that have a way of tying you down and reducing your ability to advance and grow. Break away from friends that try to tell you about those things you cannot do all the time, stay away from people who have the job to always make you feel less at all times. You see, those people that you spend your time with, they are the perfect definition of how your life is going to turn out to be and this makes it important for you to ask yourself if you are hanging out with the right set of humans.
There are periods when you need to break away from people who have toxic attitudes, I understand that sometimes you might have developed a strong bond with some set of people but today I want you to look towards the bright future. You cannot move away from the point where you are to the point where you want to get to until you disassociate yourself from certain people and then realize that the fulfilment of destiny is definitely greater than those toxic relationships you have surrounded yourself with.
You must also realize that the fact that certain people are not good for you does not make them bad people either, their values and your future may not just align and it is important that the both parties respect that. Do not be too afraid to loose people because you will always have better people coming along all the time.
It is fine that you have made a mistake, learn from the mistakes real quick and take necessary corrections. Guilt is a destroyer of happiness, if you constantly feel guilty over those things that you have done in the past you will never be able to get into the promising future that you deserve. Break free from the shackles of pain and setbacks, be proud of the point that you are coming from, ignore the accusing fingers and make your way to the top where you belong with the bold confidence of putting your past right behind you.
Make a choice today to step out of the limited spot you have tied yourself too, make the decision to let go of past hurt and pain and remember that it is never too late to try again.