Sumi's temperament from morning to morning. For two days, so many plans are going to get bogged down for the mother. Girlfriend's birthday will be eaten at the restaurant. There will surprise him other friends. Tiffin money has been deposited all organized. The show will begin in the afternoon, the evening will be evening. The mother is sitting in it. Do not let go alone. But there will be no other mother or guardian of any other girl. Everyone in the ninth grade should be given some freedom now.
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Let's know the thoughts of Sumi's mother Afroza Begum. He said, 'How can parents leave a girl alone in the current social context? He is not young anymore, he did not grow up again. His age was not old enough to understand his security. The situation of the roads, how many harassment girls are to be victimized. If a girl is in danger! '

What is the fear of this mother? In the last few decades, many have progressed in the country. Economic growth, communication, information technology-in all cases, the country's progress is visible. In many cases women have established themselves in many places. Students are doing better than primary and secondary level students. The number of students in higher secondary and higher education is increasing day by day. The number of women in government jobs is now quarter-fourth. From labor to professional, law enforcement, defense forces, politics - women's presence is notable in all respects. These numbers could increase further. But the adverse circumstances of the society are being obstructed for a girl.

At the beginning of our life we ​​have been behind many years of giving full freedom to our daughter, our society. In the 21st century, parents are afraid to allow a girl or new girl to go alone. They can not be afraid of insecurity. Society could not create that safe environment. The girl is tied in the most beautiful and beautiful time of growing up in the chain of security.

Rafia Alam (pseudonym) is a 15 year old girl. She thinks there is a great difference between the time of her teenage's time in this period. He said, 'There was not so much tension about the safety of girls in our teenager. On receiving any complaint of harassing the girls, the son's guardians were judged socially. It was not at that time, but now it is the responsibility to open the mouth. That day, I got on the bus with the girl. After leaving the bus, the girl started crying, I repeatedly wanted to know what happened. There was no answer, and only we were crying. Imagine, I am with you, but harassment is not stopped, how to leave alone?
Shahana Alam is employed in a private bank. He also worried about the safety of her tenth grade girl. He said, 'I and my husband both are employed. I take my husband or my mother from school or coaching classes. At the destination or at the destination, where is the safe girl? Are very afraid. Sitting next to the daughter's teacher at home. As a shadow, she kept the girl.
In addition to guardian and teenage girl child, psychological stress is often created. In many cases, the mother does not understand the concern of the girl. Similarly, a student Rasna. After getting to know about the matter with the college teacher Rasner, he got up and started bursting with a loud heart. He said, 'My younger brother is dragging the class. And he goes to school alone, goes to the teacher's house. But I never leave alone. Why? What did i do I just study properly. Do not lie I have never been allowed to go to picnic. Even the teachers did not get permission to go to any day. I was not allowed to go to my uncle's wedding. Brother is going everywhere What is my crime? I do not understand why my mother does not believe me. '
Society can not provide family security, but the girl is being punished. The society is moving in all respects, there are only thumbs here.

They can not save the girl
Farah Kabir
Country Director, ActionAid

My parents never allowed me to go to a wedding day. Not allowed to stay in the house at night. In fact, the parents of the parents felt the lack of social security for decades. They can not save the girl. So you want to keep them separate in the name of protecting. The society is capitalizing it. Leaving one part behind is looting. The boys in the family need to grow up with the values ​​that they can create a sense of security for their sister, classmates and colleagues. We talk about launching an education program, where children will develop mutual respect. However, our textbook was changed to 'weave'. What will you learn in society? Apart from this, untouchability is one of the reasons for social decline. Now we see many incidents like rape and murder. Even before, but not so much. The criminals can not be brought under trial. The criminals involved in acid-terrorism were caught, they found out exactly where they came out of the law. This creates insecurity. The family is going to be more mentally tight.
The insecurity of the judiciary is creating insecurity
Taslima Akhtar
Photographers and Presidents, Bangladesh Garment Workers' Solidarity

When the difference between brother and sister is felt in the family, the girl feels deprived. If we provide security to our girls, they will also be taught about their safety. And to teach this, the family has to learn. The family learns from society and the state. So society and state have to change the thinking of this matter. Media, mainstream textbooks have to be changed. Girls are now more visible. Girls are moving ahead in education, jobs and everything. Numerous young girls working in garment factories So let them go.