Jealousy: Dealing with the Inner Dialogue by yoginiofoz

writing · @yoginiofoz · Jan 16 '18 (edited)

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Jealousy: Dealing with the Inner Dialogue

>How human of me.
~Judith H. Lasater
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## _Pausing for Reflection_ ##
When what we want does not reflect reality, dis-ease may arise. From the lack of ease, one may notice thoughts that show up that are negative. How does that feel? What are you wanting to do next.

It's the pauses, if we let them, that can be our inner teacher. I don't think that anyone is immune to negative thoughts, it is what we do with them that counts.
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## _Each New Journey Starts with that First Step_ ##
It is always interesting to me when old jealousies arise. One showed up today during my searchings on the internets. I really have no reason to be jealous (Question: How does that thought serve me?) of this person. Had I not looked at their webpage, that thought would not have taken place. And yet, here I am, questioning my knee jerk reaction of jealousy....how human of me.

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## _Inquiry: Where did that thought originate?_ ##
Pettiness was pervasive in high school. It was easy to be snarky about this person or that person. By knocking them down with my words, I was building myself up......or was I? Did I truly feel better because of my behavior? Maybe at the time I felt somewhat superior I suppose. In the end it only planted the seed of disdain for others I felt were beneath me.

Fast forward to now: The deeper the work on the self, the uglier some of the subconscious muck is once revealed. I am not proud of these thoughts but I can use them to reflect on and aid me in improving my higher self. If we are lucky, we have given ourselves opportunities for quiet reflection. Moments to not only think about happy past events but to also reflect on the previous day's events to critique what we need to work on tomorrow.

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@yoginiofoz · Jan 16 '18

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@originalworks · Jan 16 '18

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@artzanolino · Jan 16 '18

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Good article, I also find myself dealing with these type of useless vices... It's very confronting to admit one's shortcomings. Very Impressive though, as most people tend to not acknowledge them at all. Self-pity, guilt tripping and a lack of patience are things I need to work on the most. I come from a verbally abusive household, so reacting to dis-ease wih a foul mouth is also something I need to surpress... Either way, I'll follow your account for more 🤓

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@yoginiofoz · Jan 16 '18

Thank you for commenting @artzanolino. I feel that this work is vitally important to any sort of substantial change in the deeper regions of the subconscious. Please feel free to include any links of your own written work on this matter. We all learn from each other!

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@artzanolino · Jan 16 '18

It is, and the once we truelly and fundementally undertsand our nature, all vices disappear, for how can one hate and by jealous of oneself if they are pure at heart?

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@sequeira · Jan 16 '18

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Knocking someone else down with words is never a good way to feel good about ourselves. It may initially feel good but that's just superficial. Subconsciously, we know it too well that our harsh words are just a way to cover up our own shortcomings. The only real way to feel good about ourselves is to actually work on our skills and personalities.

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@yoginiofoz · Jan 16 '18

What we say out loud has more power than we realize. What we say in the interiors of our mind can be hidden initially but if negative in nature only causes unneeded pain and suffering. Love conquers all.
Take care @sequeira and thanks for stopping by to comment! Please feel free to include a link to anything you have written that adds to this discussion.

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@sequeira · Jan 16 '18

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Our words do have a lot of power in them and we should use it for good. Thank you, I shall write my thoughts about this into a post and link it here soon.

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@artzanolino · Jan 16 '18

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I made this one some time back, it's called help your-self . It's both a commentary on how people tend to say the poor and homeless should help themselves, as well as portraying that with a child, for how can you blame a child for their circumstances, but also with the connotatiin that in helping others, you help your-self, for we are as one in creation 🤓![IMG_7288.JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmdGP1aDQDfPQ84457KEKy7qZtJBYNXfX5iBmh9XasUWEn/IMG_7288.JPG)

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@yoginiofoz · Jan 16 '18

By even mentally "walking in another person's shoes" should elicit humility and empathy. What we humans could do if we filled our hearts with love and took care of our neighbors.

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@artzanolino · Jan 16 '18

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One day, unless we blow it all away... I do believe in better days though, one were we are equals, and live in freedom as brothers and sisters... like they say in French, Liberté, Fraternité et Egalité![Neon Zebras.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmZU6udDxD73Sh3TrBHrJBhsPppaE4KmKKhhbfTxwkTiwa/Neon%20Zebras.jpg)

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