So I followed you over from the Steemmonster page and found your quite interesting blog :)

I would suggest that the definition of anarchist in this context simply means 'Absolute freeedom', such as that possessed by the very few un-contacted tribes left in the world. 

This is a bit of a synchronicity to me because I recently have been (quite randomly) watching a bunch of youtube videos about these last remaining free people living in the jungles of various parts of the world. The _abusive relationship_ that you speak of is a form of slavery that is so ingrained into us as a society that it has become a basic norm. 

I suppose recognizing it is similar to a Buddhist awakening of sorts. When you read about attainments in meditation it turns out that you aren't gaining anything, but you are losing incorrect perceptions and and psychological chains/burdens are dropped from the mind. In the same way we are unwitting prisoners to governing systems but are unaware of how miserable it is making us!