“厌女症”随想(上) by dancingapple

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· @dancingapple · (edited)
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“厌女症”随想(上)
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人类活在世界上都是独立的个体,在生物学角度上看,只是有亲缘关系的动物。

男女便是人类的性别分类。但作为同种生物,其中的男性在父系社会起渐渐产生对女性的歧视与偏见。这个过程漫长而复杂。

在中国,直到改革开放后,仍有大部分人的性别分歧思想根深蒂固,重男轻女的观念严重影响了女性的生存地位和身心健康。

我认为重男轻女思想是人口比例失调的主要原因之一。
我们是否要反思一下:
女性一定就比男性弱吗?

女性从出生时到每一个成长阶段,多少都会伴随失望的眼神。
即便在强调男女平等的今天,女性仍会因为性别问题在生活和工作上遭受不同程度的不公平待遇。

女性不是生而柔弱,而是被社会塑造成了这个形象。

比如贫困家庭的女孩子被父母剥夺了上学的权利,而把有限的资源全部理所当然地让给了哥哥或弟弟。

又比如参加数学建模比赛,团队不幸错失桂冠,指导老师在发言时说出比赛队伍里有不少女孩子,能获得这个成绩已经不错了之类的观点。

这样的例子有很多,但可悲的心理施暴最终会输在自己的偏见上。

——王木木

“帮她发表一篇文章比我自己写还辛苦……
字迹相当潦草。
无力吐槽。

不过我依然心甘情愿认真阅读她的文字,并且逐字打出来。

她自上了高中以后,总会问我一些社会上、哲学上的问题,然后也会滔滔不绝说她自己的观点,虽然有些还挺幼稚的,不过我很高兴她会花心思去想这些问题。

她总是问我,姐,这样对不对?这个观点有没有错?

我不直接回答正确与否,我鼓励她勇敢思索,勇敢探究。不要害怕对错,不要让对错限制了想象。

她这篇文章后续中有一句话,大概意思是人类的这种观点是有误的,她一本正经地说,姐,我这句话说出去会不会被人打?

我不知道怎么回答好。因为我不知道别人是怎么想。

但对于稚嫩的轻狂,我历来欣赏。”

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@cnbuddy ·
你今天过的开心吗?才子,才女,你参加月旦评了吗?这可是我们中文区最大的活动之一啊。倘若你不喜欢我的留言,请回复“取消”。
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@dapeng ·
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一个姐等于半个娘
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@veronicazhu ·
我觉得🍎又是爹又是娘,这人格培养,这思想开发~ 这妹妹不可小觑呀~~
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@dancingapple ·
我对她的要求是:可以不乖,不能学坏,安全第一,快乐至上~喵~
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@dancingapple ·
我一直觉得自己既是哥又是姐,您这话让我想起一句话:长兄为父。主要是我跟她年龄差比较大,她一出生我就要肩负起洗尿布的责任了。
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@dapeng ·
这个"您"字用得真是点睛……
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@drunkevil ·
这妹妹也是够厉害的,跟她姐有一比。
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@dancingapple ·
她姐跟她比差远啦~
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@julian2013 ·
刚搞明白这里面的人物关系!

我想一个从编程看出齐白石的人,怎么突然宣称活在花季,又问出了这么直白的问题:
> 女性一定就比男性弱吗?

哈哈,原来如此!


ᕕ(ᐛ)ᕗ变身!
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@dancingapple ·
哈哈,谢谢你看懂了~🍦
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@veronicazhu ·
高一就思考如此深奥的社会问题,我也很是欣赏👍👍👍👍👍
~~因为想到自己那个年纪的时候好像脑子里除了读书就是男生😂~~
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@dancingapple ·
呃……我高一的时候只会看帅哥……
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@chaofanjun ·
前两天我们公司的一个部门经理说以后尽量少招聘女职员,认为女职员太麻烦。这位部门经理是一名女性,听到她这么说的时候我都觉得非常惊讶。
一部分女性确实过于“娇弱”,她们乐于将自己归类于“弱势群体”,忘记了自己也能“顶半边天”的能力。
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@dancingapple ·
这个观点,我让我妹说说她滴看法然后再回复,哈哈🍭🍭
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@wilhb81 ·
有其姐必有其妹!姐妹都是仙女下凡,不食人间烟火~
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@dancingapple ·
谢谢!不过,我们都很爱吃!😋😋😋
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@aaronli ·
有想念我嗎?
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@dancingapple ·
木有,哈哈哈!🍭🍧🍵
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@aaronli ·
過份!
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@itchyfeetdonica ·
有个姐真好 这字不潦草啊 都能看懂 
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@dancingapple ·
你萌同频道~🍭🍭
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@nostalgic1212 ·
有点蛋蛋的忧伤…我两个表妹几乎么有依赖过我…
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