RE: 闺蜜聊什么 by vickylin

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cn · @vickylin · Apr 26 '18

妹纸…日常恐婚的我看完表示不结婚是正确的🙆
其实身边的闺蜜，结婚、生头胎、二胎、离婚、再婚的都有，唯独一次没嫁过的只有我。我和妈妈说：
>我自己都没活明白，所以我不敢结婚，更不敢有小孩。

我不记得是这里的谁曾经和我说，那么多人结婚生孩子抱怨婚姻抱怨身材走样，但几乎没有人后悔自己生了孩子。
于是我在想，那么多人婚姻不幸福但又想要孩子，但这个国度却并未给女性单独生育孩子的权利。单亲妈妈很辛苦，但想起婆媳关系、小三小四小五、家暴等一系列问题，突然觉得一个人对自己的人生负责也未尝不是一种幸事

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

妹砸，不管结不结婚生不生娃，生活多少都会遇到比较狗血的情况，这并不是选了婚姻这条路才出现的状况。确实对比很多国家，我们的生育环境并不大好，像我闺蜜这种情况的很多，又要貌美如花又要赚钱养家还要做个贤妻良母，真的很不容易。难取舍的地方太多了，想得清楚可能就什么都不敢做了。但还是会去努力的，不管结婚也好单身也好，往更好的方向走，像你说的，要对自己的人生负责是一种幸事。

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@veronicazhu · Apr 26 '18

苹果，你怎么会有如此多透彻的领悟呢？

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

我活了250年，不是白活的

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@vickylin · Apr 26 '18

哈哈，我赞同你的说法。我现在经常会处于无限的suppose的状态，但是人生其实真的不是想象出来，而是真切的去过出来的。在我没有想好之前，先为自己的人生负责吧～

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@veronicazhu · Apr 26 '18

我觉得哪天咱俩有机会在杭州面基，会有说不完的话，哈哈哈😂

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@vickylin · Apr 26 '18

好呀好呀，或者我们俩组团去HK祸害苹果去呀(*☻-☻*)

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@dancingapple · Apr 26 '18

Come on，baby！！

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@veronicazhu · Apr 27 '18

好呀好呀，这个绝对可以有！( •̀ ω •́ )✧ 咱们定个日子吧？哈哈哈

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