Awesome indeed. Thank you sir. 
This is really a suppprt. 
To the question of the day. 
I believe being financially responsible is one aspect of success, however I don't believe that is the only measure that we need to look at.  
Try this exercise, write what you would like to see on your own obituary.  Is he was a wealthy guy at the top of that article? Or does it start something like today we lost an amazing father, husband, leader, and friend?  Figure out what you want that to say, and you'll find what success means for you. Once you've found that, then you can work backwards from there and start taking steps to make that a reality.