https://s26.postimg.org/gizcwev89/banknote-15628_960_720.jpg Yep. Being a single Mum in today’s world seems more and more of a life choice. Want government hand outs? Want a house? Want an unlimited amount of free help? Yeah, come and be a single Mum. It pays to be unattached with one or more children. You can also change your job title on some web apps like Facebook as a single Mum. Great! Actually, if you believe all of the above then I’m guessing you’re single, you’ve never had a child, or you haven’t been raised in a single parent household. Who the hell are we to judge? It’s a bit of a trend right now that I can’t say that I cant really jump on the bandwagon of -- to hate single Mothers. My Mum was a single Mum for most of my childhood after ending her relationship with that God awful man she was married to. It was a choice, but not one she took lightly. She tried and tried, but in the end it just had to end. Why? Most importantly for my sanity and hers. You see, I’m betting 99% of women that are single with child didn’t actually happen on that circumstance by choice. When my wife had a hysterectomy last year I was basically a single parent for 2 months. Do you know how HARD that shit is? I mean how Mums fit in employment on top of that is beyond me. Not only did I have to try and get my work done, I had to make sure Alex was fine, had plenty to do, I was fine, the house was tidy, we had clean clothes, full bellies and we were all sufficiently watered. You may look at that and laugh, easy peasy! Ok you try keeping a 5 year old happy whilst you have the dinner to cook and your boss is asking you for a reconvene. All single Mums I know work, and that’s because what the state gives you is pennies, and the help, unless you’re desperately searching for it is less than zero. People don’t come to you, you have to take the step and go to them. Unless, of course, they want to take your kids away, but that’s a different story altogether. I can remember us having no TV as a eight year old boy because Mum couldn’t afford it. Then as an older teenager all my friends had toy boxes full to the brim, I didn’t have any of that. Can you imagine how my Mum felt about it all? I still knows she cries deep down inside for the childhood that I had, yet there are people that believe Mums do this for money. Single Mums aren’t what you see in the Daily Mail, the Telegraph, the News and Benefits Street. Single Mums are hard working, likeable people. They exist all around us. Not multi-benefit claiming, state sponsored hoo hahs. Do you know any of those personally? Then think of how many single mums you know personally? There. Answered it for you. Shouldn’t we be focussing a bit more on the useless fathers? The ones that spout out children ten to the dozen but don’t have any involvement in their upbringing? The ones the beat up and molest their children? The ones that psychologically damage their children from a young age? No-one speaks up about this, or hardly anyone does. Remember my recovery story if you’ve read it? Since then I’ve had tons of people tell me their harrowing stories that some of them reduced me to tears, but they feel too ashamed to spread it, and I can relate. Now let’s not get sidetracked. For every ten good men there’s one bad – so I’m not trying to paint a horrific hate men picture here, because I’m male myself, and, I think that I’m a fairly decent person. The same with women. Women aren’t all great mothers. Just because you had a child doesn’t mean you’re instantly an awesome parent. You have to build love, trust, and empathy with your child and educate them on the world, it’s not just their teachers to do that. So perhaps the next time you see a single Mum, don’t instantly judge; think to yourself how hard it must be in her situation and that you wouldn’t like to be in her situation yourself, because it’s damn tough, and the little resources you have go entirely on your kid (which includes your energy).
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Nice poste i like it
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It doesn’t make sense to go and get a job.
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I think whatever works best is the greatest option - many routes for different people
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God saves all mothers
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Thank you
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bro I follow you and you follow me
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I have a very close friend who is raised by her single mum,and it is not easy for them at all for herself and her mum. I feel really bad when I see her mum go through all the stress alone and sometimes she has to sacrifice her food for her only child.
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I hear you. We went through a lot of shit. I often wonder how my Mum managed it when My wife and I can have our wee one run rings around us lol
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Outstanding post and narrative. Thanks for sharing such great post with us
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Thank you :)
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Hi @raymondspeaks, I love your posts and subjects. Many thanks for sharing. I agree with you fully. although I have heard of some disgusting stories of how mothers use their children (or ability to give birth, more precisely) to make money, as a woman I know that I will never be able to use/abuse my child in any such horrific ways, if I ever become in a situation where I am a single mom. I have been abused by my mother, physically and psychologically, most of my life and I know how that feels. This knowledge is so powerful that it makes me ache to hear kids suffering in the hands of their parents and families, let alone my own kids. Thanks for sharing and engaging. Bless you :D
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That's so powerful that you say that. There is a HUGE swing in popular circles right now about deadbeat Dads but often people think that being a mother automatically makes you an angel, and it's not true. You are the fourth person I now know that has suffered at the hands of their mother specifically. My heart goes out to you - people forget that it takes two parents to have a child. I will never, ever, ever treat my Son the way my Dad treated me - I expect you passionately feel the same :)
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Indeed I agree :) Thanks for the reply and for sharing with us such important materials
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