RE: And So Ends The Day Of Zero Platitudes by scribblingramma

Three cheers for the Lesson of the Spinach! I, too, spent many years letting people walk all over me because I didn't want to upset them. It took counseling for me to understand it was ok for somebody else to be the one who got upset. I still drift back into the old habits from time to time, but am consciously making an effort to stand up for myself and for others. I just recently told someone off who had been asking for it for many years. It really felt good, and gave that person some food for thought.

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@generikat · Jan 12 '19

Ah, I hate it when I drift back into old habits, especially ones of the doormat Kat kind. Good for you for getting some help to figure it out. It took me far too long to break out of the stupidity, but like I said, I don't feel like it was wasted time. Due to the fact that I actually learned something, well, hopefully:)

It really does feel good to finally stand up to those that hurt you or deserve it. Sometimes they don't even know what they are doing. Sometimes they do. It's just nice to finally feel like I don't need to hurt for any reasons other than for those that I chose. Hang in there:)

👍 scribblingramma

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