I love you just the way you are and I don't even know you.  Complicated? I listened to a lecture years ago on all this religion and life stuff from a Vietnam vet. In his closing he posed the question stating isn't it interesting that the 3 essential questions of life can be answered by what God told Moses on Mt. Sinia: who am I?  (I am),  why am I here? (I am),  what for? (I am that I am).  I adopted the philosophy myself and find comfort in it.  As for what church when asked, I tell people I go to the church of the movie stigmata from the quote The kingdom of God is within you and all around. Not in buildings of wood or stone.  Lift a piece of wood and you will find, pick up a stone and He/She will be there.  God is just that. ... Enough of my ramblings.. Peace.