| json_metadata | "{"musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","appDepth":2,"musingAppVersion":"1.1","appBody":"<p>When I read this question, I am tempted to immediately say a friend but from my experiences in the past, I am forced to think otherwise. A neighbor of mine once told me that he does not borrow money to his friends and I never understood him. He said it only brought problems in his relationship with his friends.<\/p><p>I later realized this to be true from a few experiences I had too.<\/p><p>It is so difficult to ask a friend for money he owes you in instances when it is taking too long and you maybe need to use the money too. I once borrowed money to a friend, and for a long time he did not pay. I kept feeling uneasy when I thought of asking. I kept hoping that he would say something and he kept quiet all through. I finally managed to break it out to him one day and all he said was he forgot even though in his tone, he sounded a little offended that I asked. It nearly caused a thing between us as I noticed our interaction for 2weeks was aittle tensed.<\/p><p>The truth is, if i had it my way, I would not want to borrow money to a friend because it often leads to problems. They say the ones who stab you in thw back are always the ones who are very close to you and money issues is always the root cause of the stabbing in many cases.<\/p><p>But with friendship comes sacrifices and risks. Friends will always need your help and it can involve borrowing money from you. You cannot say no in such cases.<\/p>","appTitle":"Do you think it is a good idea to borrow money from a friend? Why or why not?","appTags":["life"],"musingPostType":"answer","appParentPermlink":"fkxkl3caw","app":"musing\/1.1","appParentAuthor":"borna","appCategory":"life"}" |
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