| json_metadata | "{"appParentPermlink":"f3dk7ld3w","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","appTags":["Love"],"appDepth":2,"appBody":"<p>People have no control over what they feel. if it was so then I think some human beings may not be controlled by their emotions the truth is that when love is not shown back or returned it is not the fault of the person who feels this circumstances that controls the feeling and action of people are way beyond what the human being can control just like the person who you love is not on the compulsion to love you back. People have the right to feel and to love however people do not have right to impose love on other people who they may be in love with.<\/p><p>The fact that love is unreturned doesn't make it obsession , what is the true obsession in this case is actually failing to see reasons to move on with life when a person fails to feel the feelings that you feel for them too, so if you love someone and they do not return the love, the love you feel is actually still love with so much affection, the only difference is that it has been turned down by the person who it was shown to.<\/p><p>Like I stated earlier, people have the choice to choose whether to return love and affection and the fact that they didn't choose to return it in your situation is exactly what I will call love gone wrong so there is no obsession in this case obsession is when you refuse to let go of someone by either stalking them or threatening them all taken even violent measures to ensure that the love you gave is returned so obsession can be dangerous. So when love is not returned or someone fails to love you back and you resort to force to actually make them love you then this is what I call true obsession, so definitely a love not returned is not obsession.<\/p>","appCategory":"Love","app":"musing\/1.1","appParentAuthor":"erica20","musingPostType":"answer","appTitle":"If you love someone, but they don't love you back, is that still love or just an obsession ?","musingAppVersion":"1.1"}" |
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