| json_metadata | "{"appParentPermlink":"f3dk7ld3w","musingAppId":"aU2p3C3a8N","appTags":["Love"],"appDepth":2,"appBody":"<p>Love is love, on one side or two sides. It will become an obsession only if you allow it.<\/p>\n<p>To love someone who does not love you is to wait for a boat at an airport or a plane in a station. Sad truth. I know.<\/p>\n<p>This does not preclude maintaining in itself affection for this person, in other words a form of unconditional love. Do you feel able?<\/p>\n<p>Forgetting or trying to avoid will only strengthen the process. The more we fight against something, the more this thing tends to hold.<\/p>\n<p>Incorporate psychically and emotionally gently (at its own pace) the impossibility of the story, as real data and not dreamed or idealized.<\/p>\n<p>If you can not see this person anymore, it's better and it will go faster. Otherwise, every time you see it will be a new booster shot. But the integration of love into Love, which is in itself, will never be a loss. On the contrary, it will strengthen your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Invest in anything that will occupy you and distract the time to heal and consider that there is not one person in the world at all times who can make you happy.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you do not believe it today.<\/p>\n<p>You can also drink poetry or literature or even movies on the subject, to expurgate and understand how others have done in the same situation, that is, it must be said, desperately human.<\/p>","appCategory":"Love","app":"musing\/1.1","appParentAuthor":"erica20","musingPostType":"answer","appTitle":"If you love someone, but they don't love you back, is that still love or just an obsession ?","musingAppVersion":"1.1"}" |
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