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If you are a mild, indecisive person, but you want to cultivate the qualities of a strong personality, you need to work on yourself. There's nothing complicated about it. It is enough to follow eight simple rules developed by experienced specialists in the field of psychology.


# 1. Watch your appearance.

Attractive appearance is considered one of the obligatory conditions for those who want to become a strong personality. You have to look good everywhere: at home, at work, on a walk, etc. Neatness will attract the attention of others, and their admiring glances will give you confidence.


# 2. Train yourself to speak properly.

A strong personality should correctly formulate their thoughts and clearly convey them to others. Make your speech louder, more emotional. If you get stuck and talk inaudible, no one will listen to you. You have to make your speech vital energy that will attract people's attention.


# 3. Study biographies of strong personalities.

Stories from the lives of celebrities who have reached heights due to their firm character can teach you a lot. In addition, virtually all famous people from childhood grew up in ordinary families, but their charisma and will power brought them to a higher level. Carefully read their biographies, and you will immediately have the inner strength and confidence.


# 4. Make your own decisions.

A strong personality is unacceptable to depend on someone else's opinion. Everything that happens in your life must be the result of your actions and thoughts. If you go on about others, and do what you do not think is right, you can completely "lose yourself".


# 5. Be straight.

Often we fear offending someone by refusing. Especially when he's waiting to hear from you is "Yes", and your mind is racing with a resounding "no." Often in such cases, we cross over "I do not want, I can not" and agree to comply with the request. This behavior is unacceptable! Think for yourself, how to be a strong person if you controls the other person?

Learn to say no to people. This is not necessarily to be rude or be harsh. It is sufficient to justify the denial of the real cause and to advise the interviewee's another way out of the situation.


# 6. Be an optimist.

The person who complains about life and constantly walks around with a scowl on her face, nothing like the strong, self-confident personality. Learn to appreciate what you have and rejoice every day. Solve any problems with a smile and a firm belief that you will cope with them. Do not forget that all life trials are given to us for a specific purpose. And after each victory you will get a new experience, and will feel much stronger.


# 7. Engage in self-development.

A strong personality, in addition to being firm, must possess a certain amount of knowledge. After all, if you are information savvy in various spheres of life, it will be easy for you to communicate in any company. You will be able to enter into discussions, prove your opinion, knowing that you are right. So you not only earn the respect of others, but also significantly increase their self-esteem.


# 8. Treat yourself sometimes.

To become a strong person, you have to encourage yourself for new victories. If you feel that you have reached a new level in working on yourself, make yourself a gift. It can be a purchase of a new thing, a vacation in an interesting place, a long-awaited meeting with friends, etc.having Diversified your life, it will be easier for you to climb the steps of fate. After all, when you go to the high floor, sometimes still stay on the grounds to relax.

To be or not to be a strong person — everyone decides on their own. But if you do decide to change your life, try to follow all eight tips psychologist. Then you will be able to achieve your goal much faster.



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