The media are definitely showing a version of reality that fits what they want us to see. As for the second question... that's hard to say. There's no denying some of the things he has said and done. I guess it's up to each person to decide how they prioritize traits in others. Some people think it's not a big deal that he mocks others; other folk think it's important to show respect to everyone you meet. He's definitely not a person that gets along with everyone.